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I think you are just enjoying what you are supposed too! I used to be ashamed and make excuses not to shop. But now I cannot get enough
I love dresses!

I think you are just enjoying what you are supposed too! I used to be ashamed and make excuses not to shop. But now I cannot get enough
I love dresses!

Maybe I'm the only one that thinks eff her and she's not your real friend, but that's just me. Just because she's your friend doesn't give her the right to say whatever is on her mind at any point in time. I'm sure she is just jealous and insecure and that really has NOTHING to do with you. I understand if you value her friendship and she really has something to offer you then yes, I do believe that you should talk to her. She may not really realize how she is making you feel or she may be some type of comedian (although you don't find her comments very funny). This talk may be what actually brings you guys closer. On the other hand, if she feels as though she's done nothing wrong to you or can't imagine how her words hurt she is truly an insecure, b***h and doesn't deserve your friendship. I guess I just have been hurt a lot in my past and have a low tolerance for others' bull. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a normal BMI, I promise you WILL NOT look like the crypt keeper. I so desire that (I have NEVER been under 200 in my adult life). BTW you can't educate the ignorant! Good luck and keep losing!

Sounds like pure jealousy to me. Sometimes it can feel like you never left high school. Tell her if she doesn't have anything nice to say, then keep her pie hole shut! LOL

If she is a true friend, you should be able to agree to disagree. Your weight loss and goal weight are between you and your doctor. And perhaps you should just not talk about the lap band and weight loss with her. But telling you that you will look decrepit, is just plain mean. This journey is hard enough work on it's own without those sorts of comments! If you have to stay fat to be her friend, then she is not much of a friend.

Hi! I have been subject to this type of negativity with a few really close friends. And sadly, they are no longer close to me. Try to talk to the person and explain your side but do not be surprised if they do not understand. You need to look out for you and your new life Good luck and if you ever need anyone to vent to. Please feel freee

I had it done to my arms. It got rid of probably 85% of my "batwings".
They are so sculptured now I look like I have worked out. I plan on having it done to my thighs also.