I'm a Christian to and my pastor tells me that God made me this way, and he means it in love, I know he does. But I believe most people are just in denial including my own loved ones. Which makes it very hard for me. So anyhow, I have lots of questions if thats Ok? How did you're surgery go, which kind did you have? I'm torn between the lapband, and the sleeve. Don't know much about the sleeve yet. Just praying for Gods direction -I am even considering Mexico for the surgery the more I read it doesn't seem so scary. Any help, advide or input would be appreciated.