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Hi Jenifer, Im getting the same responses, and it makes me very angry, you know, i wonder if we told them that we were getting a boob job done, would the comments be the same ? no they would probably say "You go girl" and support us all the way. Im thinking that im going to find i supportive person and run with them, If someone hasnt had to struggle with there weight, they have no idea the pain we go through. if they did these so called friends would be more supportive! Im in OZ and this site has a lot of support for us, we can all do it together. Im going to remember that this is a positive health step for me, not an easy one but one with an helping hand. Be strong as we are all entitled to our own opinions and our choices, These people may not agree with what we are doing but if they are true friends or family they will be there to support us my op is booked in for Feb 09, bring it on !!

Hi Everyone, i am 39, mum of 2 boys and have struggled to loose weight for the last 7yrs due to 2 major back ops. I used to run for hours and train in martial arts, which would keep me at a strong 14, i was happy and healthy. I resently lost 30kilos and had a summer of fun, only to gain it straight back. The look on peoples faces when they see me is heart breaking, and its not only the ones who expected me to fail, it is much worse the ones who were full of praise when i lost weight, now dont know what to say. I know that they feel for me, as i hate myself for gaining it all back!! At the moment i have closed the door and only go out when i have too. this makes me feel worse because i know that i am being crazy. The good news is that i am booked in for my surgery in feb 09. I can not wait, a new life for me. I know it is not going to be easy, but it is a path to a better me. I am not happy now any. When i was smaller, i had a lot more enery, i could walk into any shop and pick an outfit, i walked proud. thanks for listening guys