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Hi Jax-I have an appointment set up this afternoon. I am very scared b/c I don't know what to expect.

Last week I had a serious sinus infection and spent most of my week coughing up nasty stuff...On Saturday night, I woke up to a mouth full of saliva and then the vomiting started. It's now Monday morning and I haven't been able to take in any solids and the liquids I do take in (coffee, Water, etc.) have all come back up. I cannot even lie down without having to get up and run to the bathroom because the saliva built up is overwhelming. In my research (online), it appears that my band might have slipped. Up until now, I've had no issues with my band. Anyone know what to expect when I go to the doctor? Will they have to take all the saline out? I am so hungry and light headed, it is ridiculous. I am very nervous that my previous illness has messed up my chances keeping this band in. Anyone else ever have this type of issue?

Hey Sassymama-I understand ALLLLL your feelings! LOL..My hubby took a whole week off to assist me and the day after the surgery, he went to go to McDs. Before I knew it, I had my daughter, my son and my hubby all grubbing on some juicy cheeseburgers and fries ANNND cokes while I was sipping chicken broth. LOL...I also went a little crazy and let me tell you..it was the last time they ate in front of me. After a few days, I was ok. Now, 3 weeks later, I can handle it...so just like everyone else has said..the feelings will pass for the most part BUT there will always be that part of you that will get angry. I get angry b/c I can't finish a whole meal in one sitting...I get mad b/c I can't have a big ole glass of Dr Pepper. LOL..but then I realize, those things put together put me over 320 pounds and borderline diabetic..so you know what? Everything happens for a reason and you WILL get through this. Sometimes it takes sacrifice to appreciate the struggle. Also, I quit smoking amonst all this too..so I definetly understand where you are coming from...PLUS I started college courses this month too. One day at a time and remember..you have the support of this website plus the support of your family. Don't ever try to overcome your issues without them. Good Luck and let me know how you are doing!

Congrats on your first fill! I was also banded on July 29th. I had my first follow up appt 2 weeks after surgery and have my first fill scheduled for Sept 4th. Before your first fill, did you notice the amount of food was alot more than you expected? As of right now, I still kinda get confused on when to stop. I know it takes me about an hour to eat but I just stop myself and wait. I don't know what type of feeling I am looking for b/c I don't get the "full" feeling...or the "satisfying full" feeling. You think that's normal? Maybe I will notice the difference after the first fill. I am excited to move forward with my lap band journey. I am currently at 22 pounds lost. I was at 26 lost but then gained a few pounds back after I got back on mushies-solids. It sucks but I refuse to give up...this is just the beginning. Good Luck!!

Thank you for your input! Wow, it's crazy how different most doctors are...I go back to mine on Thursday and I am hoping that he approves me for some soft foods!! I am also at a stand still with my weight but I hear that's pretty common since we are introducing somewhat solids back into our diet. Good Luck with the weight loss!!

Hi Leann! Welcome to LB talk...I am 28 years old, two kids and just got banded on 7/29/08..I actually lived in Maryland for 5 years. We lived in Hagerstown and I worked in Frederick. We miss it up there! If you have any questions always feel free to ask them. I had a heck of a time getting approval from insurance and stuff..but once the ball got rolling, the surgery came quick. Take care and we'll talk to you soon! Nicole

I'm curious to see where everyone is on their eating stages. I was banded on 7/29/08 and are just about done with mushies..I'm pretty confident that soft foods are close but I just wanted to get a pulse check on others that were banded around the same time. How do you feel? What are you eating? If you are on mushies, what are you eating to stay full??:wink2:

Wow! I thought I was the only one going crazy by itching! It's sooo hard! haha...My stitches are finally almost healed but the area around my incisions are now itching...Grrrr! LOL..Good luck with that...Just remember there are other itching bandsters here for your support!!

Thanks so much for all the posts! Looking at some of the posts, I can relate to the hiccups while eating and a couple of other indicators. I am mushies now..and doing well. Trying to stick to 3 meals now is crazy but I take it day by day. Today I did feel a little light headed...one thing that makes me upset is not knowing how good or bad of a day I will have. Someone please tell me that is temporary?!?!?

Thanks ladies! Ok, so I will stay away from the egg salad..what do you suggest **mushies** wise...What are your faves?

Hello Again! Ok, so I am 8 days post op and have been having trouble staying full. **The first post I put up expressing my issue with hunger pains, I found out that my sugar intake would have alot to do with it...so I cut out the sugar..that worked for a day **The second post I put expressing my hunger issue again...I was advised to stick with the cream Soups and just drink more Water and other liquids. Did that and it worked for a day NOW...today, I felt like I was eating alllllll day!! By the time I would finish one thing..I would be good for an hour and then be starving again! So I looked through my Lap band paperwork and found my guide. It said Phase 1 will last for "ABOUT" 2 weeks. It said to listen to my body and if I am able to intake more with no issues...then it was time to advance to Phase 2-Mushies.... So I had some egg salad tonight and had about 3 tea spoons..slowly (took me about 25 minutes to eat it) and NOW I AM GOOD..I feel ok, I don't feel hungry and it's been about 2 hours...My question is..What am I listening for in my body?? How do I know if I've taken too much or if I am doing damage? I'm confused now. :confused2:

Thanks Sue! I will try that! Bout to go warm me up some soup right now...Thanks again!

Hello All- I had surgery 7/29..today was my first day at work ( 6 days post op) and I went prepared. Had 4 oz of slim fast for Breakfast, 1/2 Jello mid morning, about 24 oz of Water through out the day, 6 oz of cream of broccoli (blended and strained) and then a popsicle...When I a finish eating this stuff I am full but an hour or two hours later, I AM STILL STARVING! What am I doing wrong?? :confused2: My boss-who had gastric bypass 5 years ago...told me that I may be ready for phase 2 (mushies). I DO NOT want hurt myself by starting on mushies too early so I will stick with my liquids. Another concern is that I am losing 2 pounds a day..that can't be normal, right? Am I not drinking or eating enough? What am I doing wrong? Please help.

Thanks for the posts...I'm gonna walk it off. Youre right Tiffanie, it's a different feeling when your stomach growls. haha..hope I can get all this food down soon..I'm tired and I know I won't sleep like this. Walking here I go!! Thanks again!

Ok, so it's been 48 hours since my banding..today, I graduated to Tomato soup and I was so excited...but right now, my stomach is growling and I feel like I have something stuck in my chest...Can I already be feeling restriction with liquids? Do you think the Tomato soup is too thick? How do I get rid of the feeling? I feel the gas pains all over and have taken Mylanta but if the tomato soup isn't going down how is anything else? Am I gonna have to vomit to get it up or will everything eventually go down? I'm miserable...please help!

Thank you to all who have replied..it helps alot!! I appreciate it! I think I am going to call my Drs office to find out if I actually have stitches or glue..cause to be honest, I don't know. I don't know if I even have a follow up appointment but I am gonna check! Thanks again!

Ok-so I got banded on July 29th and I got released the same day. I was a little upset that my own surgeon didn't even come see me before I got discharged. Anyways, I get home and have followed the instructions that were given by my surgeon's office. Here are my questions...I've been drinking chicken broth, water and had a sugar free jello. When is it good for me to have my tomato soup? or cream of soups? Also, regarding my incisions...The doc said I can remove the gauze after 24 hours but keep the "stickies" (sticky tape) that are on my stitches. So, does that mean I have to replace the gauze? Can I take a shower like regular but just be careful about touching my incisions? I feel icky and want to shower but I don't know if it will harm my incisions if I get soap and water on them...they book said the tape can get wet so I think it will be ok. Also, the soreness...I know I just had surgery and there is going to be soreness but I feel myself crunched over all the time. When I stretch back up I feel the pain more..its not unbearable but I want to know, am I hurting myself by staying hunched over or should I try to straighten up as much as possible. What are bad look out signs that I should be watching?? Thanks for reading! I'm new to all this and want to make sure I don't goof it up...:biggrin2:

Magnesium Citrate is great! I had to take it b/c of the issues I've had in the past with my colon..Gross, I know! BUT if there is any lesson I have learned..it is...DO NOT DRINK IT BY ITSELF..Dilute it! I drank it straight one time and let me tell you...I was hurting for days! Good luck with everything!!

Hello All! I have 13 hours to go until surgery and I feel exactly the same! Little nervous but more anxious. We are all here for ya! Keep calm and relax...your "re-birth day" is almost here! Enjoy!!!

My case went through Humana too...it took me 7 days to get a reply..they are pretty quick. Mine got denied up front so I had to file an appeal. The appeals process took only two weeks. GOOD LUCK!!! KEEP THE FAITH!!!

Yeah! What is a liver flush and where do I sign up?!?!?

Best of luck to you ! I know it seems like a long road until you get there but it will be worth it. I started preparing for the insurance/doctors back in 11/07 by starting the weight mgmt program....Did that for 6 months and ran into headaches between my "fat" doctor and the insurance...just got approved this month! So just be patient!

That's right Latrice! Stay Strong...Much easier said than done...Today was a good day..I was determined more than ever to stick to it 6 days 6 days...Breakfast I changed it up a bit..Low Carb Slim Fast (Vanilla) with some frozen strawberries and blueberries....It was OK..not a oreo shake from Sonic but it got the job done...Before I knew it ...it was lunch time. I had my tuna salad for lunch and had some almonds for a snack. Then I get home ready to eat dinner and guess what...I forgot to drop the meat from the freezer! GRRRR....all gravy though! Had me a slim fast for dinner and there ya go! Now, I know if I can do it..we all can do it. I just keep thinking of the blog I read yesterday...about the doctors opening me up and cancelling my surgery...HECK NO! I have worked wayyyyy to hard for this and I refuse to get cancelled b/c of something I HAD control over! WE CAN DO IT!!!! WE HAVE TO DO IT!! There are no exceptions...well except for the cookies I had last night...BUT THAT'S IT! LOL

You know what?!? Thanks Melody...your blog sure did give me a reality check...After reading it, my mouth dropped...you are right...and yes, that does scare me. THANK YOU!

Thanks Casscass- Good Luck with your pre op diet..Ya know, it's not so much the diet that I see as challenging, it's the freedom to choose what you eat. I am the type of person that you can tell exactly what to eat for 10 days or 2 weeks and I will do it. I hope you find it much easier than me...in fact, nevermind, you will do great!!! Keep in touch and let me know how low carb does for you.