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I had sex 10 days after the band. I read a thread a while ago about the same thing. One of the guys mentioned that he had sex the day after his band.

I took 3 fills for me to feel any restriction at all. I am up to 8.5 cc's in an 11 cc band. I was very frustrating at first, I was getting so discouraged until that 3rd fill. Hang in there!

This is the saddest post I have read in a while. You absolutely need to separate yourself from the negative influences in your life! I know that this if your family, and they probably think that they are expressing "tough love", but in actuality they are destroying your spirit. You need all of the energy that you have within you to focus on YOU. These people have hurt you so deeply, don't you see that they have already ruined your day/dinner before it is even here. DON'T GO!

I felt the same thing my first fill. I had my second fill last Wednesday and I only felt a little restriction. THEN THIS MORNING, I FINALLY FELT TRUE RESTRITION.....YIKES! I was rushing to get out the door this morning and I heated up a piece of meatloaf from last night's dinner. I woofed down my last 2 bites and left the house. No sooner did I get in my car and the pain started. My chest was SOO tight! Meanwhile, I still had food in my mouth, but I knew I would surely kill myself if I swallowed it. So, here I am, driving about 3 miles or so, sitting as far forward as I can cause of the tightness in my chest and chipmunk cheeks full of meatloaf, then my mouth starts watering (I think that is what they call sliming???), but i don't have room in my mouth for more stuff. So, I take a short cut through a quiet neighborhood. I had to pull over and spit the food out of my mouth. I sat there for a few seconds then the PB's (producing burps) started. HOLY HELL! I had to pull over 3 different times. Sorry for the graphics ) Needless to say, I cut up my chicken for lunch in teeny tiny baby bites.....I was okay. I know this is going to sound crazy, but I actually think I need to be filled one more time. This morning's incident was due to me inhaling my food. Good luck and know that you are not alone. Jane

I completely understand what you are going through. I feel like a failure. I haven't lost any weight since my surgery July 14th. I CAN'T WAIT to get this party started and start losing. My first fill was 4 cc's.....felt nothing at all. My 2nd fill was last Wednesday and I got another 3 cc's. And I only feel a little restriction. Good luck & remember you are not alone. Please keep us updated how you are doing. Jane

I flew to Mexico for my surgery. Total cost $7800 including airfair, transportation, surgery, and 1 year of fills. Dr. Rodriguez in Monterrey. I was nervous at first about going to Mexico, but the hospital was exactly like the hospitals here in the US, and everyone was super nice.

Cassandra, I am in the same situation. I was banded July 14th and have had my 1st fill 2 weeks ago (4cc's) and I don't feel any restriction at all. I lost 13 lbs right after surgery and I have gain most of it back.....very frustrating. Also, I seem to have a bigger appetite than before. I have been told by many people that they did not feel restricted until their 2nd fill. I can't get my 2nd fill until mid Sept. Please keep my informed on how you do with your 2nd fill. Don't get discouraged, this is a work in progress. Jane

I work a desk job, so I only took 1 week off work. I was okay, but I really could have an extra 2 days off.

Don't worry, sleeping will get better within a few weeks. I am also a side sleeper and I had the same concerns right after surgery. It took about 2 weeks for me to be able to sleep on my left side, which is the side that I prefer. I am 4 weeks post op and I sleep like a rock now. Congrats on your surgery!!

YOU GO GIRL!!!! Happy Bandiversary. Do you have before and after pics that you can share? I don't know about everyone else, but when I see the before/after's I get get so motivated. I have a few questions for you.....Have you reached your final goal? If so, what happens then to ensure that you don't lose too much weight? Also, how many fills have had? How many fills did it take for you to feel any restriction? I am only 1 month out and I am able to eat anything, no restriction at all. Thanks for sharing!!!!

I am in the same boat at you. I am about 4 weeks post op and my appetite is back in full force. I get my 1st fill next week and I can't wait. How do you feel since the fill? I'm assuming you are on liquids for a few days, right?

The most difficult thing for me day 2 was getting out of bed (the sitting up part). I could really feel my port for the 1st few days. But, I also had a hernia repaired at the same time, so that may have been why it was so difficult for me. Other than that, I felt great.

I was banded by Dr. Rodriguez (of the Bariatric Group) in Monterrey, Mexico last Monday 7/14. He was wonderful, and spoke perfect English. When he started surgery he found a "huge hiatal hernia" and repaired it for me....no extra charge. I can give you the name & email address of an American coordinator. If you are interested, send me a private message. Mine cost a little more though, $7900.00. I flew from Maryland to Texas on Monday, drove to Mexico, had surgery Monday afternoon, and flew back to Maryland on Thursday. I have had very little gas pains. I still have trouble getting up out of bed and bending over to tie my shoes, but other than that, I feel great! I highly recommend Dr. R.

I am only 6 days post-op, so I am scared to try any alcohol right now. But, my mother-in-law has been banded for about a year and a half and she drinks beer, wine, frozen drinks, and doesn't have any problems.

I am 6 days post-op and that is one of my biggest fears. I have a large dog (Boxer) who is a jumper and I am constantly protecting my stomach area when she is around me. Please let us know what your doctor says.