SargentSkittles

Yes! Thank you, that my bearded dragon Cider thank you for your comforting words. I am amazed to see how many people have gone, or are going through this with me Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

I beg to differ, I think YOU are changing you life! Regardless, thanks for sharing! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

I've heard the first week or so is super hard. I really believe you can do this! Hold on, and stay in there! From what people have said it's going to be worth it in the long run. I havent have wls yet, I'm due in may....but I've had 6 ankle surgeries from a break when I was 10...still have issues with it. I get the no sleep, on top of the wrenching pains. I hope it gets better for you! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

That's a really super awesome idea!! Thanks for sharing the info! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

Thanks, I'll look into them! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

People talk about having no appetite after surgery, so the diet is easier. How are some ways you guys combat emotional eating? This is one thing I worry about. So far I've been doing really well, I'll go draw, or take a walk. I've lost 50lbs since october 2018, and I'm now sitting at 310lbs. I'm doing well, in my eyes, but I would still like to know more ways I can combat this problem. Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you for sharing! I really appreciate hearing people experiences. I wish you luck on the rest of your journey! Your doing great! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

I can see your point of view summer set. I have told a few close people I am having WLS just because I need support. I'm sure once I gain more confidence I will tell more people if they ask me, and i trust them, as my weight issues started when I was 2, and I'm now 21. People will surely notice. I guess I just need to build my confidence, and learn that in a way, telling I can try to break so negative stigma, by explaining that it's a tool, and how hard you have to work. For now, I'd rather keep it a secret, as I'm scared I will fail, like every other time. I have hope. I just need to believe in myself more....but as FluffyChix said...to each their own. Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you!! I really do appreciate it. I was hesitant on joining a support forum, but glad I did...I hope you surgery goes well! I can wait to see your progress! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you for your kind words!!! I am confident I can handle the changes, I'm mainly scared of the procedure its self. My last surgery in August had major complications, I almost died and had to stay in the hospital, for what was supose to be an outpatient op. I found out in october of 2018 my thyroid was bad, and got on meds, have since with help of my bariatric team have lost 50lbs. I'm at 310lbs now. I guess I'm just having a little PTSD. Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

That is one thing I'm most scared about going into surgery. You are very inspirational, and I'm sure you look awesome lol. Thanks for sharing, I feel not so alone on wanting to hide the fact I'm choosing surgery, due to the bad wrap it gets. Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you for your input! Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

I am in need of friends too xD Hey girl! XD Sent from my SM-N950U using BariatricPal mobile app

I posted in the VSG surgery group, but thought I'd post here too. I am looking at a surgery date in May...very super scared. I've had 8 surgeries, I'm 21, but this one is the most nerve racking one yet. What should I expect? What should I bring with me? Any tips, help, support, and love are greatly appreciated.

I am looking at having VSG surgery in May of this year. I'm really nervous, and not really sure what to expect. I've have 8 surgeries in my life, I'm 21, so I'm not scared of surgery, just of this particular procedure. I'd appreciate any tips, advice, support, and help.