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ARCarnes

Gastric Bypass Patients
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  1. Wow!
    ARCarnes reacted to Alex8706 in November Bypassers!!   
    I just microwave this for 30-45 seconds

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    ARCarnes got a reaction from ScorpioC_RnY in Weight Loss After Surgery   
    I just kept doing what I was supposed to and after a week, it just broke....
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from ScorpioC_RnY in Weight Loss After Surgery   
    I’ve finally come out of the stall and started back down..! I’ve been cleared for cardio as well and hope that’ll help keep it going!! Good luck @ScorpioC_RnY
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from ??????? in Weight Loss After Surgery   
    I’ve finally come out of the stall and started back down..! I’ve been cleared for cardio as well and hope that’ll help keep it going!! Good luck @ScorpioC_RnY
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    ARCarnes reacted to Matt Z in Weight Loss After Surgery   
    "Stalls" suck, just understand that we really want to worry about fat loss, I know it's called "Weight Loss Surgery" but really it should be called "Fat Loss Surgery" since we don't want to just lose *any* weight, we want that weight to be from fat and not muscle or bone density. Keep up on the water, current medical research shows that working towards 128 oz of water a day is optimal for both proper hydration AND fat processing. When you stall, if you are not tracking body fat %'s, focus on things like, how your rings and clothing are fitting, you could be losing fat and not losing "weight", there were so many days where my poundage wouldn't move or would climb, but my body fat % would decrease. So you can be losing fat and not losing weight. Just something to be aware of.
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    ARCarnes reacted to Born in Missouri in Weight Loss After Surgery   
    As disheartening as your first stall can be, get ready to experience the opposite. On more than one occasion I've lost close to 3 or 4 pounds overnight. What a feeling! It makes me want to dance on the ceiling!!
    Also, I like to weigh myself after a big Number Two. Who knew that going to the bathroom could be so exhilarating?
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    ARCarnes reacted to catwoman7 in Weight Loss After Surgery   
    many (most?) of us having our first major stall sometime during the first month after surgery. It's called the "three week stall" because it usually happens the third week, but not always. Mine was weeks 2 and 3. You may just be going into it early. Do a search on it - it happens to almost all of us.
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from GettinSkinnywithit in November Bypassers!!   
    It did @gettinskinnywithit !
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    ARCarnes reacted to GettinSkinnywithit in November Bypassers!!   
    @arcarnes and @mreinmn - hope your surgery went well today!
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    ARCarnes reacted to waltonwoman in November Bypassers!!   
    I had my sleeve done the 2nd. I had issues with nausea but i came home just a little over 24 hours after surgery. Started my protein intake today. Good luck to everyone having surgery, I'm sure you'll do great!

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    ARCarnes reacted to DollfaceD in November Bypassers!!   
    Surgery was on the 1st. Had a little too much nausea so I was kept an extra day but it looks like I’ll be going home today! Good luck to all of you still waiting.
    Remember to walk walk walk. The gas pains are no joke I promise.
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    ARCarnes reacted to GettinSkinnywithit in November Bypassers!!   
    Good luck this week! I’m right behind you next week. I’ve been reading the September and October bypass threads since they are one to two months ahead of us.
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    I though a 2 week pre op diet was bad but it looks like you have 3 weeks so I guess I better count my blessings. I'm having surgery the day after you. I start mine on Tuesday. Good luck to you!
  14. Wow!
    It gets better :) just keep at it.. it’ll be tough, not gonna lie, but you can do it!!!
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    I started pre-op today for surgery on 11/1, so I am right there with you! It's 3pm and I have one shake left I can have today. Gotta do this! I'm hungry, but I am taking sips of water constantly and it helps a bit. Chewing gum is also helpful... just don't swallow it. lol.
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    Way to go! Day one. It is tough but really try to stick to it. Pre op is so important. You want your liver as healthy as possible plus you will get a good start on your weight loss. Get lots of rest and keep focused on why you are doing this. Keep reading encouraging stories of success and check out pictures of before and after. You can do this!!! I am 2 months post op and down 33 lbs. Feels so good ?
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    ARCarnes reacted to Frustr8 in Nov 5. Surgery Date - w/ last minute switch to RNY   
    you're November 5th, Suesloosinit October 5th and I was September 5th,maybe after it's all over we ought to band together. ?5-ers!
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from Auroragirl4489 in Nov 5. Surgery Date - w/ last minute switch to RNY   
    Hello All - I just received my surgery date Thursday - set for November 5th. I am truly excited and looking forward to it. Up until this week, I had been planning to have the VSG; however, after reviewing all of the test/lab results - my doctor suggested the RNY. It appears that it will help me lose more weight - which I am at 360 now - and get rid of the co-morbidities that I suffer from (high blood pressure and Type 2 Diabetes). I have research the VSG extensively, but now find myself having to switch what I know to the RNY. Does anyone have information that they would like to share - Do's and Don'ts - Suggestions - FYIs, etc. I would appreciate any and all assistance.
    Also, I was told by the nutritionist that I wouldn't be able to drink coffee or tea after the surgery. I was prepared to drink decaf coffee & tea - but didn't realize I would have to give it up fully. Is there anyone else who has had the RNY who still drinks decaf coffee and/or tea?
    Thanks to all.
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from Kbridge in Nov 5. Surgery Date - w/ last minute switch to RNY   
    Mine too - and “Hot Tea” just isn’t the same for me! Good luck!!
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    ARCarnes reacted to Kbridge in Nov 5. Surgery Date - w/ last minute switch to RNY   
    Good luck to both you guys! ARCarnes. I will ask my doc when I get to hospital Wednesday morning. Inquiring minds wanna know. Coffee's my friend?
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from Ed_NW in Nov 5. Surgery Date - w/ last minute switch to RNY   
    Great - thanks Ed! Good luck on your surgery!!
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    ARCarnes got a reaction from Kbridge in Nov 5. Surgery Date - w/ last minute switch to RNY   
    Hello All - I just received my surgery date Thursday - set for November 5th. I am truly excited and looking forward to it. Up until this week, I had been planning to have the VSG; however, after reviewing all of the test/lab results - my doctor suggested the RNY. It appears that it will help me lose more weight - which I am at 360 now - and get rid of the co-morbidities that I suffer from (high blood pressure and Type 2 Diabetes). I have research the VSG extensively, but now find myself having to switch what I know to the RNY. Does anyone have information that they would like to share - Do's and Don'ts - Suggestions - FYIs, etc. I would appreciate any and all assistance.
    Also, I was told by the nutritionist that I wouldn't be able to drink coffee or tea after the surgery. I was prepared to drink decaf coffee & tea - but didn't realize I would have to give it up fully. Is there anyone else who has had the RNY who still drinks decaf coffee and/or tea?
    Thanks to all.
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    ARCarnes reacted to KindaFamiliar in Guys who started over 400 lbs.   
    @@Ignatius
    Apologies for the delay in replying...
    Apologies for the possible length of this post...
    Once I get on a roll, who knows where I could end up...
    Anyway, here goes...
    Firstly, a little about me...
    I was sleeved on Feb 25, 2015.
    I was 45 yrs old.
    At my heaviest, I weighed 255kg..
    That's 562 pounds.. (We use kg in Australia but as the majority here use pounds, I usually do the math to make it easier)
    I was one of the lucky ones...
    Despite my weight, I had NO co-morbidities...
    No diabetes, no cholesterol, not even high blood pressure...
    In the lead up to my surgery, my surgeon pulled no punches..
    He made me fully aware that there were no guarantees he'd go thru with the surgery until he'd opened me up..
    He was concerned about the fat around my lived and his ability (or inability) to get into where he needed to...
    To give me the best chance, he put me on a 'liquids only' diet for 4 weeks prior to the operation...
    I can tell you now, that was the hardest 4 weeks of my life...
    What made it worse was knowing that it could all be for nothing...
    Anyway, I stuck with it for the four weeks (had a couple of hiccups along the way, but nothing I hid from the surgeon) and surgery day came...
    Long story short(ish), the surgery was a success...
    I did three nights in hospital...
    Again, I must be one of the lucky ones...
    I had no complications...
    No pain...
    Nothing...
    The nurses kept insisting that I use the 'pain pump', so I did...
    But I didn't really think I needed to..
    The worst part of the whole thing was, for the first eight hours or so, I was unable to even get out of the recovery chair...
    This wasn't so bad for me because I slept for most of it...
    But the poor nurse who had to hold the jug for me every time I had to pee - I reckon it might have been a different story for her...
    Poor woman...
    Anyway, three nights in hospital...
    I was hooked up to a machine for my sleep apnea and that SUCKED BALLS!!!
    The day after the op, I was up and about, walking the ward and peeing by myself whenever I wanted to (woooohoooo!!)
    The doc was really pleased as he thought I'd struggle because of my weight, but I didn't... (Again, lucky?)
    By day three, I was itching to get out, and out I got!!
    Self administered injection for (blood clotting) for ten days and the all was good...
    The progression of diet from liquids to solids was difficult, but nothing compared to the 4 weeks prior...
    Once I got home, I struggled a bit with energy/tiredness..
    Lugging 560 pounds around on no food and just after surgery was always gonna be tricky but I got there...
    Once I started losing weight, I kinda looked at it as a percentage of what I wanted to lose rather than the actual poundage..
    While the big numbers are great (really, who LOSES 230 pounds??) it's more realistic to look at it and be aware that I'm 70% of my way to target..
    It's a much better way when you compare yourself to others (and you will, despite how bad an idea it is) and give you an idea of where you're really at...
    I really like your question re 'losing motivation when you get to a stage where you can lead a fairly normal life".
    It's not something I've ever thought about...
    But I guess the answer is "YES", it's certainly a possibility...
    I'm at the stage now where I'm finding myself able to exist quite comfortable, especially compared to where I was at...
    And I guess that is very possibly a contributing factor to my recent 'funk'...
    In short, this honestly the best thing I've ever done...
    Like many people, my biggest (only) regret is that I didn't do it years ago...
    Mate, I'm not sure what else you want to know or even if this has been any help to you...
    I've not read it back so it may not even make any sense..
    If there's ANYTHING you think I might be able to help with, please don't hesitate to contact me, either here or via private message..
    Take care...
    Jason

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