ShimmyShade

Bring him to a seminar or something so he can understand what the surgery is instead of what he assumes it is. Other than that I would suggest losing a ton of weight now by dumping his ass.

What did they say?! Are you approved?

I'm willing to help and tell my story.

I usually just respond with something that makes them want to put their foot in their mouth like "Well, it doesn't look like I don't need it but my liver disease says otherwise." Then maybe she will think twice about those kinds of comments.

I'm still waiting for my response from Aetna and I turned it in last week, but my doctor said it usually takes two weeks on average.

Following, I'm a huge book worm and love reading all I can about the topic. Haven't seen any books in the store about this topic though.

Let her be aware that it is so difficult to lose weight when you're older that's why some people need a tool like the sleeve. Also I like the suggestion earlier of taking her along for seminars and doctor's visits so she can understand what's going on.

Would be tempting to ask your sister-in-law "If you know everything then how come you're overweight?"

My mom is obsessed with his videos! Sweating to the oldies is the dvd I got her one Christmas and it was her favorite gift.

Still waiting for my date, but sounds like a perfect valentines day gift to yourself!! I'm so excited for you and I hope for the best!

I remind myself that I'm doing it to lessen complications during surgery.