M.A.

Hi everyone, On Monday it will be 4 weeks since my sleeve surgery. How much should I have lost by now? I feel like any progress I am making is very slow. Thank you

Really inspirational ! You look fantastic ! Well done.

Well done ! That's great. The liver shrinking diet is so hard. I really struggled. I was sleeved Dec 11. I am so glad I stuck it out because it made my surgery smoother and I had no complications. You got this ! Nearly there ! Im cheering for you

Help! i am on the liver shrinking diet of hell. 1.8. litres of skim milk daily and sugar free jello. Nothing else to eat. Surgery Dec 11. i am finding it very very difficult. do I have to follow this diet? can I cheat? how can I do this for 2 weeks !? help!

Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful replies. What makes it most difficult for me is that he doesn't feel he did anything wrong and thinks I'm overreacting. This is such a private and intimate ordeal for me (my weight) and something I can only talk to him about. How on earth he could tell this to people when I have asked him not to is beyond me. It's not like he said that it has been difficult for him and he needed to confide in someone. That I could understand. It's that he just matter of fact told it to someone without giving any thought to how I would feel about that person knowing something so personal about me. He must have known that I didn't want him to because at first he only said that he told him I was having surgery and not what kind. I am sad and angry and after some yelling from both of us we are now not talking.

I am waiting to have gastric sleeve surgery. We agreed not to tell anyone. My husband said it was up to me who we told. At this point I don't want anyone to know. Not because I am ashamed but because it is very personal and people are judgemental. He told his business partner that he was going to take some time off when I have surgery to look after me. We agreed he didn't need to know what kind of surgery. Turns out he told him I am having weight loss surgery and also told my mother in law. I don't like his business partner and we are not close. I hate his wife who I am sure he has told now that he knows. my husband doesn't see what the big deal is and I feel betrayed and so hurt. im pretty sure he told two of his friends although he denies it. i feel like he told strangers the most personal and intimate thing about me. advice please