Snowfoot

My best friend is the same way. She constantly tried to get me to eat the wrong things pre-op. She seemed to be trying to sabotage me. I asked her to go to a support group with me. She listened to the pre and post op people throughout the meeting. They had wonderful insights about the journey. I asked them about what she was doing. They were very helpful in explaining to her what was happening to me and why offering me food and telling me I hadn't eaten enough was hurting me. She finally "woke up" that surgery is my choice and whatever comes with it. If your man won't listen to you maybe a group of people at a support group will open up his ears. Be strong. Put that box of candy in a place you won't have to deal with them until next February and then regift it back to him from your skinny self...

You are very welcome. I know how difficult it is being a caretaker and how stressful it is. It is rewarding, though. It might not seem like it now. You can do this, you are not alone.

Water and exercise are your best bets. Good luck. You can loose those extra pounds. You got this!