UniqueZeke

It's been interesting/ironic that I've been getting notifications of happenings on this thread. Here I am, 3 years later and back where I started - almost literally. I gained back almost all of my weight in the last year - I'm trying really hard to be kind to myself but it's hard. My husband left me out of the blue last March and now I can positively confirm that I eat to cope. Who would have ever thought eating around the band would be so easy?! It's way too easy! *guilty look* I had to go buy new clothes this weekend and I have a walk in closet full of clothes, they just don't fit. I didn't speak up much here in the past because I was insecure, so I'm throwing this out there - anyone in the same boat? Anyone gotten out of this boat I'm in?

Thank you all for your support. I've been so down that I didn't even check back to see if anyone posted. There has been some great advice and I will take all of it! I made an appointment with a counselor for this week - that was the first step. I also had a pretty intense conversation with a friend who was a big part of my journey and she made me realize that I have isolated myself and haven't been open about where I'm at. I need to "come clean" with those four people because they were my initial support system. So wish me luck with that - I'm very scared...I'm gonna start logging food too - i'm all set up for that too...I really appreciate the advice - keep loading me up, I need it.

This is my cry for help. I was banded 3/17/08 - I lost 80 lbs and was doing great. Somehow I got off track and I've gained back 25lbs. I don't know where to go, who to turn to and I feel like a complete failure. I had been following this thread for a long time, just enjoying what everyone was sharing, but never contributed and haven't read a lick since March of this year. If there is anyone out there who feels like they have a good pep talk up their sleeve, I could really use it now more than ever...

Okay, it's the end of week three at the new gym and I still feel like I'm not fitting in...rather sticking out like a sore thumb. I'm trying not to pay attention to everyone around me, but I still feel intimidated....I'm frustrated!! :tongue2:

I believe my band cost $4500.00, not a small amount by any means, but half of what your hospital is quoting. Good Luck to you...

Thank you for sharing your journey, I'm 9 days post-op and feel like I really got an honest picture of what is ahead of me. I laughed and cried as I read your words. Congratulations on your hard work and perseverance - it has to feel wonderful!

It's been one week today for me as well. I returned to work, not quite sure that I was ready to be here. It's been a long day and it's only 1:15!! Friday was the worst for me as far as hunger goes, my stomach was definitely protesting the clear liquids! All I wanted was a rice crispie treat and I haven't had one of those in years!! I blame the tv and all their food commercials! After starting full liquids on Saturday, I have been feeling fuller and not so hungry! I wasn't really given any lifting restrictions and I don't know if that's because I didn't catch it on my way out the door of the hospital or what?! I know that when I tried to lift something on the somewhat on the heavy side, I could feel it pull - that was my clue to get some help! All in all, I think I'm progressing well...glad you all are too!

M... I was banded on 3/17/08 in Beloit, WI by Dr. Karin Blumofe! Best of Luck to you!!

Just wanted to let you all know that I made it home today, it was a little rough last night, but I'm happy to report that I'm on my way to recovery! A little tender in the abdomen, but otherwise feeling good. I'll check back a little later, gonna go sip some water! Hope everyone is doing well and hanging in there!!!!

I'm on day 9 of my pre-op diet, surgery is scheduled for tomorrow morning. According to my 800 cal diet that I've been given to follow, I can have as much broth as I want...so don't feel so bad about cheating! You made a good choice! You could have cheated with something much worse!!

Jessyca - you definitely have your work cut out for you! Good Luck!

It sounds like we're all down for the count. I'm being banded on Monday in Beloit, Wisconsin. I know there are two others that day from here so I'm not alone =) I'm not looking forward to the weekend, it's harder to stay focused on the liquid diet when I'm at home. While I'm at work, it's a breeze! Good luck to all of you!!!

I don't have to have a shot, gages - that doesn't sound like much fun. Still drudging through this liquid diet, it's getting old but at the same time getting easier. It has made a huge difference having people going through it at the same time - do you agree? Anyone else's office being overrun with girlscout Cookies?!

I am being banded on the 17th also! It's always been my favorite holiday, now it also means the beginning of a new life!