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Yassss girl. I'm trying to slay in every aspect of my life. But he is gonna suffer for doing me like this and then the girl text me today that they had been messing around for years and sent me all kinds of text and I was like well he is your sweetie so have a good one????

Thank you so much. I am hurt by this n the fact that he is still lying but hey. I am moving on n thank God that I still have my sanity and every day is a bit easier.

Thank you and fed his loss

Girl, I pray your strength in God and if you need a buddy , send me private message and we can link up. I have dealt with so much mental anguish over the last 23 years until it's ridiculous and now I'm like it's time for me to do me. I'm So happy right now but I wish I wud have done this sooner but it's never too late to learn a lesson.

Yep he is stupid on all accords. But it's okay I am moving forward with my life. God blessed me by giving me the information I needed to see. I'm good. Thank you for compliment as well.

Thank you so much. Somebody will want to cherish this diamond ?. I'm moving forward.

Amen... look at God. It hurts but I feel so much better that I have actually done something about it now. I'm done. N I think he is scared of someone else giving me what he didn't , which is unadulterated, full fledged love.

Thank you. I'm trying to hit goal by the end of June.

Thank you !!!! I'm trying to be like you.. I don't have the guns but my son has been showing me exercises for my shoulders, biceps and tri. He plays football so he thinks he is a trainer as well, lol. But thanks so much for the compliment, made me smile ?

Aww.. I receive that. I know this has hurt me but I prayed for it to be revealed and God was merciful enuff to reveal his dirty lies. I was still borderline about divorce but this last thing has made me say oh no. It's done!!!

Thanks hun!

That's what I said... no more of this crap. Time to go.

Yes I have posted some in previous forums but I will post another one just for u. The first pic was one week after surgery and last one was like 3 1/2 months or maybe 4 months after surgery. And I just posted what I look like in the core area today. I'm still working though

Thank you . I do have 3 kids .... 2 are out of the house and I have a senior in high school this upcoming year. I'm not looking for a man but if I'm blessed with a good one.. I'm all in.

Yep he is crying n begging n he will pay all bills and blah, blah but nope not doing this again. Those are the same crappy reasons I let you come bk before but I'm done with that crap. You weren't sorry when u laid down for the second affair with her so don't be sorry now.

Been working these abs doing the ab challenge I posted about maybe 4 -5 weeks ago. They are not that cut yet but I have trimmed a small bit of fat from my abdomen. I'm ready for a two piece I believe. Lol. Trying to get this waist snatched. Current weight 161 lbs and goal weight is 150lbs. I am 5 months out ( started journey at 242 lbs). To Hod be the glory.

Been working these abs doing the ab challenge I posted about maybe 4 -5 weeks ago. They are not that cut yet but I have trimmed a small bit of fat from my abdomen. I'm ready for a two piece I believe. Lol.

Thank you ma... I'm trying to be happy n stress free. Can't do that with him in my life anymore.

I totally agree... n now he is begging but it's too late.

OMG... my thoughts exactly. I told him n her , I thank you both for giving me the strength to do what I have been battling with for years. I'm done and free and cute and my waist is snatched.... Boy bye✌?.

So, let me first say happy Mother's Day to all of the moms on here. Secondly, I want to let you all know that I'm currently 161 lbs... which is 11 lbs away from my goal weight of 150 lbs. ?????????????? round of applause for that being that this is month 5 for me. Tjirdky, let's discuss the topic at hand. Anyone who has followed me know that my journey with my husband has been bad . Well , it's reached an all time low. We were asleep 3 nights ago and the phone kept vibrating. I told him to answer and he wouldn't. Well we have 2 kids that are outside of the home right now so I said let me make sure it's not the kids texting him. But my gut told me this is gonna be bad. But I checked anyway. This is what I saw " You left your rubber in my bed and my baby found it""" with lil joking emoticons. OMG... my heart dropped to my toes. I felt he was cheating but didn't know for sure. Let me also put this out there. My husband had not slept with me in 3 1/2 weeks at the time. So I knew something wasn't right. I had been praying to God for a revelation in this marriage be it whatever way, good or bad because my spirit knew I wasn't being treated right and I knew he was messing around. Heck I had just caught him maybe 1 month before that trying to hookup on Facebook. So, needless to say I told him I want a divorce and this was it. No more will I be the hurt wife who is trying to sacrifice herself for her husband, nope. Already have been consulting legal counsel because it's over. Now, he swears he is gonna do right and wants his family. I told him he had 21 years to do right and if he wanted his family his penis oils have stayed in is pants. Ohhhhhh.... here's the agonizing part for me. This is the same woman he had an affair with on me 13 years ago. Same dirty tramp. I'm like oh no that means this never ended. Which he swears it was only one time. Yep I believe that like I believe in Santa Claus. I cried for 2 days straight. Then I said forget this , on Mother's Day I put on a backless sundress ( in my new size 8 yassss) went out shopping ,had a great time with friends and felt like I was coming into my new, happier peaceful self. I am still very hurt but I thank God for revealing his evil because I don't want an std or aids because he is a hoer. This surgery has truly changed my life. The old me would have cried and just took him bk and dealt with the pain. But not the new confident, strong Diana that this surgery helped to bring to surface. I posted before that I knew we were gonna divorce , just didn't think it was gonna be like this but it is what it is. There is someone out there who will cherish me and love me for the jewel that I am. Thsnk you guys for all your support throughout the months. You have truly become my family.?

So, let me first say happy Mother's Day to all of the moms on here. Secondly, I want to let you all know that I'm currently 161 lbs... which is 11 lbs away from my goal weight of 150 lbs. ?????????????? round of applause for that being that this is month 5 for me. Tjirdky, let's discuss the topic at hand. Anyone who has followed me know that my journey with my husband has been bad . Well , it's reached an all time low. We were asleep 3 nights ago and the phone kept vibrating. I told him to answer and he wouldn't. Well we have 2 kids that are outside of the home right now so I said let me make sure it's not the kids texting him. But my gut told me this is gonna be bad. But I checked anyway. This is what I saw " You left your rubber in my bed and my baby found it""" with lil joking emoticons. OMG... my heart dropped to my toes. I felt he was cheating but didn't know for sure. Let me also put this out there. My husband had not slept with me in 3 1/2 weeks at the time. So I knew something wasn't right. I had been praying to God for a revelation in this marriage be it whatever way, good or bad because my spirit knew I wasn't being treated right and I knew he was messing around. Heck I had just caught him maybe 1 month before that trying to hookup on Facebook. So, needless to say I told him I want a divorce and this was it. No more will I be the hurt wife who is trying to sacrifice herself for her husband, nope. Already have been consulting legal counsel because it's over. Now, he swears he is gonna do right and wants his family. I told him he had 21 years to do right and if he wanted his family his penis oils have stayed in is pants. Ohhhhhh.... here's the agonizing part for me. This is the same woman he had an affair with on me 13 years ago. Same dirty tramp. I'm like oh no that means this never ended. Which he swears it was only one time. Yep I believe that like I believe in Santa Claus. I cried for 2 days straight. Then I said forget this , on Mother's Day I put on a backless sundress ( in my new size 8 yassss) went out shopping ,had a great time with friends and felt like I was coming into my new, happier peaceful self. I am still very hurt but I thank God for revealing his evil because I don't want an std or aids because he is a hoer. This surgery has truly changed my life. The old me would have cried and just took him bk and dealt with the pain. But not the new confident, strong Diana that this surgery helped to bring to surface. I posted before that I knew we were gonna divorce , just didn't think it was gonna be like this but it is what it is. There is someone out there who will cherish me and love me for the jewel that I am. Thsnk you guys for all your support throughout the months. You have truly become my family.?

You look awesome ??!!

You are rocking it.... you look awesome. My Highest weight prior to surgery was 242 and I had surgery dec 5,16 and my weight is currently 167. I am really proud of progress and I also said summer of 17 will be my time to shine. Congrats girl you are so rocking this sleeve.

I want to say I don't feel guilty but I do... for years I have wanted to divorce but just been afraid of hurting my kids. My kids are 20, 19 and 17 so they are not babies but they are close to their dad. This is just really hard for me but I feel it's very necessary.