Yadie2006

my doctor had me do the 2 week diet its driving me nuts! lol nothing but meal replacement shakes,soups and water ????????

thank you sure!!! im so nervious

thank you

thank you very much! today i actually feel better! and you are right , he did always wanted to control everything

thank you very much! i cried all last night, but i havent called him or texted him. im doing this surgery because its for my health to live a longer life for my children. he has seen my struggles with being overweigh i cant even tie my shoes with out having shortness of breath. he saw all of that and it hurts that he thinks im doing it to leave him how dumb is that! thank you for your words and prayers. ❤️

you are absolutely right! thanks love! ❤️

thank you ❤️

yes a have a great friend that is helping me out get thru this. thats exactly how i feel i feel he planned thist thank you ❤️

thank you very much

thank you

im a receptionist and my doctor gave me 3 weeks off!

thank you! right now i feel numb. i dont know how to feel. i dont know if i should cry i dont know im just in shock i didnt expect this will happen

Wow what a jerk..... He doing this and there are kids involved? What selfish self absorbed a$$! Prayers to give you strength to get through.i dont think he would care much about my kids. he is not the father or my children but he has been in there lifes for 5 years and my kids love him. but if he doesnt care about me then he doesnt care about my children. ???? thank u for your prayers ????????

thank u so much ❤️ thank you ❤️ What an insecure selfish prick move that was. So.......surgery to improve your health was all it took to run him off ????? He's got tons of issues that will take years that work through....... And if he is even man enough at some point to work through them. Have the surgery and improve every aspect of your life that you can. You'll find a real man who is unselfish and values you and your choices. If he's younger.......then all the better. Get revenge through getting healthy and living each day to the fullest. thank you ????

thanks guys! i feel very sad! but i have to stay strong for me, for my son and my daughter. surgery 02/23 a new chapter in my life. ????

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thank you ladies, but he said he doesnt need couseling. he is just shutting all the doors on me. i told him my body will change but not my heart. but he doesnt care. in the beginning he was supportive about my decision but after eveything changed. im doing everything on my own not even once did he go with me to any of my appointments. im on my 2 week pre-op liquid diet and he eats in front of me and even jokes about the protein shakes i have to drink. its so hurtful. and today he decided to leave me. he said he is too old and that he is not going to wait the moment i loose weight and leave him thats all he said. he is 40 and im 32 he always making a big deal about the age. saying that ill look for somebody younger. i just dont understand whats wrong with him.

my husband left me 10 days before surgery! 2 days before valentines day! cant believe this. he said he rather leave me now because after surgery when i loose weight i would not care or love him anymore! is this really happening to me!??

thank you! i forgot when was the last time i felt pretty! but everyday i get more convince that im making a good decision by doing this surgery. wish me luck i want my life back! sometimes i feel like im dead already. locking my self in my room and not even paying attention to my kids because im not happy how i am. im ready for this. i want to live longer and be the mom my children need! ❤️

im scared im going to die in the surgery ???? my coworkers tell me alot of negative things! one of my coworkers even told me, IF Your FAT your FAT accepted! i was like what??? did u really just say that?!n????

yay!! ????

no !!! they dont require it anymore! mine was approved in 4 days!

good luck and god bless ❤️

yay we have the same day! i know when family dont support us its very emotional. but only we know how hard it is to lose the weight. this is going to be a life changing journey and im so ready for it. keep im touch i will also pray for you. ❤️ im in san jose california. im having my surgery at good samaritan hospital with dr marc zare.Hey girl, I am having the sleeve Feb 1 at Good Sam with Dr. Zare!!! really? thats awsome! he is such a noce doctor! did u start your preop diet yet?

im schedule 02/23/2016