JennaJ221

been havin such a hard time with my boss lately. she used to be a friend, but she just never was good to me and i had enough. so for about a yr now i've disstanced myself from her. she's my boss so i have to talk to her, but my jobs pretty free where i can go a few days without having to see or talk to her. she's delusional and still calls me a friend. well, with that being said, she thinks she can put inputs about my decisions on a personal level. i informed her last month that i would be getting lap band in february and will need to take a week off. she then said something so shocking that i wanted to clock her... ..she told me i was going to die from the surgery. now it didnt scare me. but i was shocked that any kind of person would tell someone before surgery that. she then proceeded to call it the "death surgery". i was annoyed, but not scared. she's crazy. and i've never hated somebody so much before in my life. ..then today, she said it to me again, told me i was going to die and she would not be attending my funeral. i just lost it, i let her break me. i burst into tears because of fustration and shock that someone would say these things. i dont know if she just doesnt want me to get it, or she's trying to make me break down. either way..she's really low. now dont get me wrong. im not scared by any means, i know things can go wrong, but im pretty confident and am not worried or scared. my question is, she is a personnel manager, so shes in human resources..now i dont think this is right to talk to people like this being in human resources. is anyone out here in human resources? if so, or if anyone has any knowledge about it, is there something or anything i could do? she needs to know she cant talk to people like that, but i just dont know if theres any rules. any help would be appreciated. and thanks for listening to my rant.

hi. thanks u guys for ur responses. i was never actually diagnosed, and it was never really fully blown out bulimia. i would get rid of stuff if i overate, wasnt a all the time thing. just wanted to clear that up a lil. even tho its still bad to do. lol

hi. i have kind of a weird question. I'm scheduled to be banded at the end of february. And well..i USED to be bulimic..for a few years, been recovered for a year now. and i always knew about damage to the esophogus. i dont think i have any, but am still worried. i havent told my doctor. just scared to bring it up. Anyone else have a past with throwing up? Do u think it would cause problems? Thanks to anyone who can help

hi. im from massapequa. anyone else go to Dr. Ferrara in wantagh?

hi everyone. just wanted to quickly introduce myself. My name's jenna. I'm scheduled to get my band around the end of february. Just went for my second visit to my Dr. today, so that leaves just one more visit left on Feb 4th, then i set up my appointment. So excited, cant wait!! lol. :confused: Hope to get to know ya all!!