My surgery date is March 29. I'm also terrified. But comparing where I am in life right now with where I know this surgery will bring me, I know I am making the right choice. My neuro-surgeon was the doctor who finally suggested it .After multiple spine surgeries , his diagnosis was my back is "wrecked " and more surgery is not warranted. I also have numerous other health issues and am missing out on a lot of life. I prayed I'd never have to have another surgery, but I know this is going to be life changing in a positive way. I asked myself if I could/wanted to live basically house bound for the next 20 years. Ask yourself if the life you are living will be ok for 10, 20, 30 years . If the answer is no, then you will have your decision. If you are ok to go on with the same lifestyle, then you are not ready.
Best of luck regardless of your decision.
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