anthonyb

That is definitely true I do not want a plastic girl at all.

How does that work?

Thank you all. So to put more context. It hasn't gotten me too down yet. But it only started after I lost weight. I am on the normal dating sites pof match etc. after awhile it starts to weigh down a little bit.

Hi. It's been 2.5 years since my surgery and I have lost a little over 100lbs I gained about 10 back and it seems ok. I struggle everyday with how I look. The crazy part is I am told more now that I am too ugly to date by women than when I was bigger. I have some extra skin but I feel I look better but maybe I'm not. It is only about my looks for women anymore I'm not sure why. Maybe I can get some insight?

Hi, I would love to talk and get to know any woman who has had the surgery and possibly date if there are sparks. It would be great to meet someone who has the same issues and understand everything we go through after surgery. I am 2.5 years after surgery. Can't wait to hear from you.

Yeah i don't tell them about my loose skin but after weight loss I have a harder time finding a date than I did before so.

Has any one had any luck recently finding a date because I have struck out

That is too bad. I agree with everyone else you need to put you first. This is a personal health decision and sadly some people do not understand that. I know in my case I was just very clear with her that I needed to make this decision. She never fully understood. I hope that doesn't happen to you. There is more to life than what we look like. And with WLS we can live long enough to enjoy those other things.

This is common. It happened to me as well. I guess the best question really is why does not want you to lose weight? In my case my ex wife thought if I lost weight I would leave her or cheat on her. Basically no one but her wanted me when I was overweight but if I was skinnier then maybe I would have options

Good luck! It's a long journey

Haha yeah. But it's still awesome now.

Well for me. I fit in clothes that I never did before. So I have a small amount of fashion sense now. I'm back to being athletic again and playing some sports When I go get a drink and get ID'd I get complimented. Negatives. I hate food. Dating still sucks.

Thanks!

Yeah there is just not a lot of people on