I had my surgery on 11/21, yes focus on your water, it is extremely hard for me too. I carry the bottle with me every where. Propel's flavored water by gatorade helps or diluted apple juice. My large incision has not quite healed, I just try and keep it clean - was worried a bit too! Proteinex liquid protein gets you 18g of protein in 2 Tbs dose. It's gross but it helps when I don't all my protein down. (I agree it is hard - ice does help it go down) Premier Protein is my fave it offers 30g - it takes me 2 1/2 hours though. My trick to getting foods down is to mentally count to 15 stop let the saliva accumulate chew some more until food is apple sauce consistency and slowly swallow. It is the only way for me to get food down! I had to buy 4 Oz containers and baby spoons too ikea has a nice 50 pc set that look more like normal utensils.