I am so with you! I am 46 years old and had my hip replaced in September 2013. After recovering from that surgery I tried to begin exercising and doing Atkins and only lost like 6 pounds in three weeks. I think after all the years of yo-yo dieting, I must have wrecked havoc on my metabolism. That's when I decided to have the sleeve done. I only told a handful of people prior to the surgery and all of them were supportive. I did not however tell all of my family. My husband, kids and mom were the only ones who knew. During Christmas some family members on my husbands side were asking why I did such a thing.... my mom, quickly responded by telling them that I needed to get the weight off my hips. They became silent.
My husband wasn't too excited about this but when I shared with him the amount of pain I was in on a daily basis, he backed off.
I am 17 days post op and I already feel better. I simply don't have time for anyone with negative comments. This is my life, my health!