My mom is the same way. Every time she goes somewhere like to her hair dresser she calls me and tells me tha ther hairdresser knows someone who had it done and all your hair is going to fall out!!! Or she starts in with the are you sure you want to do this. Ya know it is forcer!! No really!! I'm 50 years old I think I know if I want to really do this or not. I told her the other day. Enough! I'm having this surgery and nothing you can say or do will stop me. She was like well I'm just worried and I to,s her that's ok but she needs to quit. My surgery is in a little over 2 weeks.