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@mamiof3kids, all I can say is when I had my RNY 8 yrs ago I went through the same exact things u r going through. I decided I would give him time because it was a huge adjustment for all of us. I gave him three years after that and he never came around. All I can say is talk to him & express how you feel, if he is smart he will listen if not u will get tired like I did. Good luck and focus on your journey. Us latin women tend to put everyone else before ourselves and we do not realize that we owe it to ourselves to be happy!

Have a speedy recovery!

Yayyy!!!!

Good luck & a speedy recovery!

Sending nothing but positive thoughts your way...

Although as your hubby this also affects him, in my opinion it is your news to tell. I had RNY 8 yrs. ago and I still get upset when my boss tells other people although I have asked her not too. I actually do not mind telling anyone that asks ME, but again it is not her news to tell.

Rhon how long did u take off work?

I am doing the rny revision. I had lost a total of 170 lbs and over the last two years have gained 53 of it back. I decided to go back to my surgeon and after a serious of test I have a dialated anastamosis. He decided the best thing was to re-do the rny. I was very honest with him and know that some of this was me falling into bad habits, but I knew not all of it was. To this day i still do not drinks anything carbonated or drink with my meals. My pouch itself was not stretched but the food basically is emptying too quickly and my anemia is pretty bad from not absorbing. Thank you so much for your reply and yes it would be great to support each other!

Godspeed!

Princessl how did ur pouch test go? Also@ Rhon how was ur experience with the revision? I am schedule for one on 8/20, i am also 8 yrs post op. thank u in advance for your replies!

Congrats!

@jeanetteramirez2, as far as sex I would ask your doctor. Mine said whenever you are up to it. And as far as swallowing no problems here and I am 8 yrs pt-op. My brother always had this saying, there are two kinds of women the ones that swallows and the ones that spit, although a bit sexist remark, I akways got a kick out of it!

Miami, Fl

Lol, I should be an expert considering years of dieting!

Thanks for sharing, missed 4.