I'm new to the 60's group ( though I'm 64 - I'll introduce myself tomorrow when I it's a bit easier on my laptop.
Congratulations on the surgery and your progress.
I have a "kind of" similar trip planned with a girlfriend to Las Vegas for a basketball tournament. She was with me for my surgery (VSG on Aug 15) and is fully in the know about my requirements. We've targeted restaurants with soups that appeal to me (egg drop, etc.), appies like shrimp cocktail, or a "clean" meatball, or an entree that where.the beef, chicken or fish isn't smothered in stuff I can't eat. Luckily wraps are so popular now, too.
It seems like from the buffet you can choose similarly without sending out unwanted radar signals, and who says you have to eat it what's on your plate?
That may be best part of buffets since plates are ditched quickly when people are going back and forth. Cheese, shrimp, your fave meat that isn't transformed thru frying, a few veggies, a salad that may include cottage cheese ...
You'll have a grand time with no worry about questions or expectations (except "why do you look so good?!"