I too find it difficult to eat out. I will order either a soup or an appetizer that has some protein. I am three months post op & had to get a "divorce from food". I initially would order a meal like I normally used & quickly & painfully realize that I was hurting myself. I would end up eating a few bites & giving it away or end up throwing it out. Like many others I now order small & simple & don't go out as often as I did. It's not worth it & yes not being able to have a drink before, during & after a meal is not appealing unless you time it precisely. Good luck to you. I'm also glad to hear others having similar problems & concerns.