I'm so sorry you're going through this too. I'm almost four weeks out and I thought my husband was on board but yesterday he told me he wanted a divorce. he's been my best friend since the day I met him. we were inseparable. we had problems but always made it through. Im so hurt I can't see straight.
I just had my drains removed five days ago and the drain sites still hurt. Its hard to stand up straight or walk. I think it's just a normal part of healing. it'll just take time.