Hello, I feel your pain. It took 3 years to get to my surgery.
My first Bari program lost their doctor just as I completed all their hoop jumping. I had some health challenges that delayed my search for the right program and doctor.
The second Bari program rocked, but my insurance refused to pay for the VSG. So, I waited for them to change their mind.
I had my surgery on March 18th. Next, Monday is my 6 week follow up. Yay!
Hang in there.