TinyMamiOf3kids

Thankyou

Thank you it's so easy to go & do stuff but when you have no help it's difficult. I go for less then 2 hours do my mails & I find my 15 year old in charge of the kiddos. Hubby leaves the kids all alone all the time. I try to take them out with me but don't want to damage there lungs Smelling chemicals at a salon this is the reason I don't take them there. I guess I will have to or leave them next door eating mcdonalds till I'm done. It's so hard my 15 year old is the best daughter in the world but her dad is putting pressure on her. I ask her to help but I'm home helping. I'm not outside leaving her the responsibility of watching her bro/sis..

I know I was just saying that I want to work especially with rent beeing expensive & such.

Where you were working at? In the future come by to ny put your uniform on & we can take a photo. Did I mention I love fire men?

You mean in my neighborhood? LMFAO that would be super cool

Yes I get disability check for both my kids it's not much due to the fact that my hubby makes a lot of money but I'm sure once we are no longer together I will have the max amount they aloud. I only spend $13 on my nails $16 if I need to start again. It's every 2 weeks & I have stretch to 3 weeks. Im not planning on sitting back relaxing collecting my Kids checks. I want to work but not have to pay a babysitter. I just want to work when I'm not with hubby. I don't like working to rush to make dinner or cook in the morning & have hubby say "I have a wife to serve me" not for me to warm up the food. I think single life is a struggle but at the sametime I cook Kids eat what I have & if I'm not in the mood take out. I can also have short cuts. Don't need to make beans almost daily. I can make a sandwich with Chips on the side & that's dinner. I can finally be approve for food stamps.

Yes you should plus soda isn't healthy even for skinny people.

Soda makes my belly grow. I stop 1 month before surgery.

Also do you have to live in housing after shelter? Is there a possible way to live in a regular building & get section 8?

I have 2 special needs kids. I don't know if they can deal with a child banging there head on the wall & floor. I will look into that if worst comes to worst. Thank your wife for me.

Thank you I'm trying to be strong but I'm really hurting. It's difficult. I don't don't want to stay but I want my bills paid. I will find the will to leave one day.

You will save a lot & it has a lot of sugar. Diet bad because they day it stretch your tummy.

I'm in the same boat except I'm loding weight slowly. I'm a smaller person like you. Biggest weight 211 drop to 197 before surgery. I'm now 167 it's not moving fast but I'm working out to tone as much as i can because I don't want to sag so much. I barely eat but now I started getting in some protein. I eat tilapia fish 4 bites. Skim plus milk it's like 11g protein. Lots of water. I found out I couldn't take protein makes me vomit so I'm just trying to eat as much as I can in 24 hours.

Good luck & hope it all works out. Insurance are a pain in the butt.

We love you Tammy! Your welcome & thanks for being there for me as well.

I wish you the best & hope everything comes out great.

I always heard it goes away after surgery. Is it getting better?

I love fire men!!!

Looking good

What's up with these men!!! We ate each other support group.

Thank you I keep asking god to give me strength & don't let my marriage fail but he is only giving me strength. My marriage is crumbling like bread crumb.

It's easier said then done but in the USA everything is about credit & if I don't pay my bills my credit will be ruined forever & I will never get a house or a bigger amount in a credit card & when you have kids you never know when you need money so a credit card may save you in a emergency. I have about 3 years worth of bills to be paid off. After this is over I can then decide leave or stay. I guess surgery can be done later on. My bills comes first. I agree it's time to get out of this marriage. I wanted my marriage forever but if someone is going to continue accusing me & in front of my kids I can't keep putting my kids threw this. I'm dragging them down with me & they deserve better. After this is over I want nothing to do with men. I rather live alone & stress free with a nice apartment.

Thanks for letting me vent... It's getting harder each day. I really don't wanna say it but here it goes..... Today I went to get my nails done like I do every 2 weeks. It's bit easy finding parking but I find even if I have to walk 3 blocks. Well I noticed the gas was less then half & he (hubby) had fill it up to half. I came home between 2:30-3 pm... I went to asked him about the gas but didn't know his brother came to visit (basement). He explain must have been that he took the long way home. I got over it... Took my middle 4 year old to get my eye brows done & go get ice cream at the market & chicken gizzards at the Chinese for hubby. I'm home kids been fed thanks to my 15 year old. We all took a nap. My room gets hot so I was in panties when suddenly hubby smack me real hard on my butt. I woke up! He said why I'm showing my kids my butt. I cover my self but it was hot so I under he comes again I cover my self he said why I'm showing my body if I'm not giving him any. He then started saying how he should smack me on my face. I have the nerves to ask him about the gas when I should had asked the guy I was f---ing with the least he could have done was put gas since I'm giving him free p---y. I was shocked!!! He kept saying how I came home at 6pm when he wasn't even home. Marriage going down down down the drain..... I don't know why I asked about the gas. I started all this argument. Now he wants to hit me. I get accuse for going to therapy my nails the market dietician. I must be the biggest slut my p---y must be made out of gold that everyone wants it.