it's hard but you an do it I was in your shoes but had to loose 40 lbs and months went by and I half way done it due to kids husband etc. but when I got serious and knew I had to do what I had to do I am there in less than 3 months and have surgery date it was hard my fitness pal I did 900 calorie intake you can do it.
So I have pre-op appoinment 5/23/2013 and surgery scheduled for 6/4/2013 I do shakes moring and lunch and sensible dinner when do I have to go on liquids diet I am also having gall bladder removed by the way had lap band removed 2010 they thought complications so this is a revision tooo kinda scared but soooooo excited.