Newme4sure

Nice to see the fullness of your hair... you didn't have any problems with hair loss? if not, that is spec-freaking-tacular! Go girl

Looking just fab!!!!!!! Keep up the good work

I am so afraid to tell my boss that I need time off. I'm convincing myself to only take 2 weeks when I know I may need 4 smh. My surgery date will be scheduled for late October early November and I still haven't said a word to my boss smh....

I can relate to you and you and I are basically the same age.... You sound exactly like me so I'm assuming that people go through this all of the time...this is a serious decision..I totally understand what you're going through that's why I appreciate this forum so much. Not one person on here went through something that someone else didn't. Like you I too need to continue to do some soul searching about what the final decision is going to be. At the end of the day it has to be the best decision for us and we have to make it for our own reasons. I sent Tabby Monroe a request on instagram and would like to follow you as well.... I just couldn't seem to find your name lol. Good luck with everything and I'm sure you'll make the best decision for you.

I am so glad that this topic was brought up. I'm always on here lurking and reading everybody's story, but somewhat afraid to reply... I think a part of the reason is I too am still figuring all this out and am still weighing my options going back and forth... But at the end of the day I always feel like I have already made the decision to move forward .. This process can be so confusing...it took me 3 years to get to the point where I finished all of my appointments and seem more ready to follow through with it than anything. Some days I am totally excited and others I'm afraid.. Leary....I just really wish I had 1 decision and didn't flip flop back and forth I think it's more of a fear than anything.... My doctor/surgeon is actually preparing to submit to Insurance and I may actually be having my surgery done the last week of October or first week of November. This is quite the experience. I was so happy to see this thread because here lately I've been feeling like it's just me being indecisive. One of the things that drives me is the fact that I'm 30 years old but feel like I'm 80... Of course there are so many other reasons but I am probably rambling at this point lol. I haven't spoke up much on here but I am now ready to talk. Thank you all for your stories and I look forward to sharing mine.

I totally agree with all of your posts.

Im new to this forum as I am waiting on my surgery date