Kendra, my cousin had the bypass in May. We have never been close, but the surgeries seem to be bringing us closer.
Anyway, she forewarned me of this very issue...so sad. She is going through something very similar with her bff.
My, soon to be ex, bff of over 20 years was very supportive in the beginning. Now, every time that I talk to her, she is annoying & overly competitive. I don't understand. I had this surgery because of medical issues. At 2 weeks & a day out, I am 20 lbs lighter & off of all of my meds (diabetes, hbp & sleep apnea). I am beyond excited! She should be happy for me...not envious!
Listen, I love her dearly but I am too old for the nonsense. I also have a new life to adapt to, so I can't worry about her issues. So, if things don't change soon, I will be making some changes of my own...good luck with your situation & thanks for starting this thread!
Sn: I think that I will add this topic to my list of things to discuss on my next YouTUBE update.
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