Melissa...hang in there! Don't compare yourself to others...slow but steady... wins the race. I imagine it's easy to be discouraged..but you will get there. Stay strong..and smile...you rock girl!!!!
Do U !!!..Don't worry about what anyone else thinks..as long as you have your husband's support you are good. You have decided what's best for you and your family...and that's it! Don't discuss it with them...you don't need their approval. Let them watch ur smoke when you get the weight off...you will be more fabulous than you already are! Remember...Do You!!! Everyone else does them..right?