Hello, I was banded and had my gallbladder out in 8/5/09. Everything went well, I've had minimal pain but thought it would be nice to have my husband (very supportive) hang out with me this weekend. Well my MIL picks this weekend-she knows about the sugery and was supportive- to insist that my husband come and clear out the shop (they have in there barn). This wouldn't normally bother me, but she and my FIL also pulled something similar when - had pneumonia a year ago. I needed my husband to watch my son then. I told my husband all of this and after leaving me alone to go there yesterday, he is here with me today. I think my MIL can't handle that she is not the #1 lady in my husbands life- she quite the drama queen. (Lots of stories). Any way just wanted to vent! Man she bugs me sometimes!

I had my surgery the same day you did. Arent you feeling a lot better yet? I would think you could be up up and around a little more now. Maybe have him take your kid with him when he goes. Then that would give you time to yourself... Makes sence to me~ Do they have, and your husband have other time off at the same time to do this project? Maybe this is the only time to do it. Shoot, my husband had to go to work on Friday. I survived it pretty good. I have two little ones! Hang in there.. it will be OK:thumbup: