Ok guys sorry to make me way into the MAN area but im guna take my chances to get some advice for u fellas about my little relationship issues that i have at the moment.

My partner have been together for a while now this is accually the 3rd time round we have been together we were seperated for 6 months, when he came back into my life things were absoluteley wonderful, he was a veryu humble positive person to be around, he was very open about his feelings towards me and very affectionate. I felt like he was very proud to be with me and i was for the 1st time really with him feeling very secure in our relationship. At the moment we seem to be arguing alot, hes not affectionate at all really and we only have sex if i iniciate it if ofcourse he dosnt reject the idea. Its making me feel like he is bored of me, dosnt find me attractive ... i dont know.. we have just appied for a loan for a house, he says he wants to get married and have more kids.. but his actions dnt match.... help? what can i do? help me understand please?

we are all sorted now thank you

i do thank you for everyones advise but i am not going to dump my partner over this when it hasnt been happening for very long, this was a bump in a road that has been good. I came in here to try and understand him, but we have talked and now i know. Something i would also like to state is that we have broken up a couple times because i left him, because i have been scared to commit. I am a mother and my child father left when she was 3 months old and the man that i am with now has been more than a wonderful person in my daughters life , hhe has raised his son on his own as his sons mother did a runner wen his son was 3.

i know it is easy to say leave him when u are not in it and dnt see what we have gone through, like i said overall things were wonderful and this was just a bump in the road that he found difficult to talk to me about, but now that he has it is alot better.

i do thank you for everyones advise but i am not going to dump my partner over this when it hasnt been happening for very long, this was a bump in a road that has been good. I came in here to try and understand him, but we have talked and now i know. Something i would also like to state is that we have broken up a couple times because i left him, because i have been scared to commit. I am a mother and my child father left when she was 3 months old and the man that i am with now has been more than a wonderful person in my daughters life , hhe has raised his son on his own as his sons mother did a runner wen his son was 3.

i know it is easy to say leave him when u are not in it and dnt see what we have gone through, like i said overall things were wonderful and this was just a bump in the road that he found difficult to talk to me about, but now that he has it is alot better.

That's fantastic that things are all sorted out now, but respectfully......when you ask for advice, you're going to get advice, whether it's what you want to hear or not.

Yes and i am thankful for all the advise that ppl took the time to give me and i was just explaining hjow i felt about them, i was not angry.

Then that means......Happy ending for everybody!! Yee-Haw!! I'm glad everything came out for the better!

LOL....it has ended yet. You will see.