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Group Hug - I know I need one...

Here is a *BIG GROUP HUG* to anyone and everyone who needs a nice big hug today, and even if you don't think you need one have one anyways.

Today's a bad "bandster hell" band day for me. I've not lost any weight in the past two weeks and am struggling to have the will power to eat the type/size of meals that I should be eating with 0 restriction. I know that this is just a phase and it to shall pass but right now ... despite knowing that I have a hard time believing it to be true. I just want to get this show on the road. :rolleyes2:

I have been upping my intake of Water which was big thing for me which is good and as soon as I am finished packing up my house to move this weekend my adventure back to Curves will begin!

So *HUGS* to all, please tell me this gets better.

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I definitely need one today, I'm in!

My 8 year old daughter got not good news at the dr yesterday, my 3 year old son is not having a good time of it either, and my dh just backed out of the garage in my 1 month old van with the hatch open.

Not a good week so far.

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I definitely need one today, I'm in!

My 8 year old daughter got not good news at the dr yesterday, my 3 year old son is not having a good time of it either, and my dh just backed out of the garage in my 1 month old van with the hatch open.

Not a good week so far.

Oh gosh! I hope your kiddos are okay, being a parent must be very scary when it comes to the health of your kids. *HUG*

I am going through the same thing Ang!! I need a fill BADDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! LOL ... I have to REALLY force myself to push my plate away ... I have to the about do I want my double chin to come back LOL ... and that's scary so I usually snap out of it. But anyway I am sooooo pissed with hubby right now too! DAMN I JUST WANNA CHOKE HIM! OR KILL HIM AND BRING HIM RIGHT BACK TO LIFE!!! But I have vented! ((((HUGS))))!!!!

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I am going through the same thing Ang!! I need a fill BADDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! LOL ... I have to REALLY force myself to push my plate away ... I have to the about do I want my double chin to come back LOL ... and that's scary so I usually snap out of it. But anyway I am sooooo pissed with hubby right now too! DAMN I JUST WANNA CHOKE HIM! OR KILL HIM AND BRING HIM RIGHT BACK TO LIFE!!! But I have vented! ((((HUGS))))!!!!

It's nice to know I'm not the only one going through this - I mean it's not nice because it sucks that anyone goes through this, you know what I mean. Lol hate to be your hubby today he better watch his back lol :biggrin:

With the weight loss and all the crazy hormone surges my poor fiance gets to bear the brunt of my psychoticness, poor guy.

*HHHHHHHHHUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGG*

Yeah I am going to really try and be calm with him 2day and just let things kinda smooth over by themselves ... I just need to take a chill pill! But at the same time I am getting sexier and sexier by the minute so he'd better stay on his damn toes!!! (LADIES U KNOW WHAT I MEAN! LOL) So I will make his callertune (for those who dont know the song he will here when he is calling me instead of the typical ring ... while waiting for me to answer) Beyonce's Irreplaceable!!!!!!!!!!! That will get his ass! LMAO!!

BIG HUGS TO ALL OF YOU :smile2:

You summed up my bandster hell perfectly!! It sucks to have zero restriction and feel all those "temptation demons" creep back in. :cursing::biggrin:. I am scheduled for my first fill next Wednesday and just found out I have an important meeting at work that I can't miss. When I called my doc to see if I could change my appt, they said they wouldn't have anything available until 3/26:angry:. I just don't want to have to wait another 3 weeks for a fill!! Hopefully, there will be a cancellation and everything will work out. Let's hang in there, girls.....we can do it!!

Thanks for letting me vent and the group hug!! :thumbup:

Amy

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BIG HUGS TO ALL OF YOU :smile2:

You summed up my bandster hell perfectly!! It sucks to have zero restriction and feel all those "temptation demons" creep back in. :cursing::biggrin:. I am scheduled for my first fill next Wednesday and just found out I have an important meeting at work that I can't miss. When I called my doc to see if I could change my appt, they said they wouldn't have anything available until 3/26:angry:. I just don't want to have to wait another 3 weeks for a fill!! Hopefully, there will be a cancellation and everything will work out. Let's hang in there, girls.....we can do it!!

Thanks for letting me vent and the group hug!! :thumbup:

Amy

*HUGS* I hear that, I ended up managing to get my first fill appt bumped up a few days as it wouldn't have been until march 13 (my surgery was jan 23) and I managed to get bumped up to March 10. Hope you can get in on a cancellation, I would phone every couple days to see what they can do for you. Hang in there girlie!!!

It worked, it worked!! I called my doc's office and they got me in TOMORROW morning for my first fill!! :biggrin: I'm so excited.....and now a little nervous. Now, THAT'S the power of support!

Thank you so much!!:smile2:

I'm sooooo with ya --- I am one week from my first fill and am just sitting on my hands to call the doc and asked to be moved up.

I'm feeling no real restriction, WANT to eat everything in site (I'm PMS-ing too).... craving things like oreo's and milk and all of the stuff I've done SO WELL with staying away from.....

I officially now know why they call these weeks Bandster Hell....... BRING ON THE FILL - I tell ya

I'm finding myself wondering what the heck this thing is doing for me (NOTHING AT THIS POINT)...UGH!!!!!

I hear y'all. My first fill is next week. I just keep telling myself it's just one week, I can do this for one more week. I do have some restriction, luckily, but I still bet I could put some food away if I tried. LOL. I've been trying to get as much protein as I can to stave off the hungries!!

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It worked, it worked!! I called my doc's office and they got me in TOMORROW morning for my first fill!! :biggrin: I'm so excited.....and now a little nervous. Now, THAT'S the power of support!

Thank you so much!!:cursing:

YAY!!! That's awesome but nerts to you :smile2: for getting your fill first when my surgery was two weeks before yours HEHEHE. That's soooo awesome I am SO Glad they fit you in! Whooo hooooooo :thumbup:

I'm sooooo with ya --- I am one week from my first fill and am just sitting on my hands to call the doc and asked to be moved up.

I'm feeling no real restriction, WANT to eat everything in site (I'm PMS-ing too).... craving things like oreo's and milk and all of the stuff I've done SO WELL with staying away from.....

I officially now know why they call these weeks Bandster Hell....... BRING ON THE FILL - I tell ya

I'm finding myself wondering what the heck this thing is doing for me (NOTHING AT THIS POINT)...UGH!!!!!

Omygosh I hear ya, that's exactly how I feel!!

I hear y'all. My first fill is next week. I just keep telling myself it's just one week, I can do this for one more week. I do have some restriction, luckily, but I still bet I could put some food away if I tried. LOL. I've been trying to get as much protein as I can to stave off the hungries!!

WE CAN DO IT!! HANG IN THERE LADIES!!! I wish my skinny demon would just go ahead and eat the fat demon already, seriously.

Sorry bandster hell is rearing its ugly head upon y'all today.....:cursing:

I really would willingly trade places with any of you though---I am waiting for my ride to the oral surgeon! I broke a tooth, and the root remained, now I get to go let a surgeon roto-rooter it out.

Any takers?????

Well sorry Angie, I would prefer the oral surgeon any day to my child getting bad news from a Dr. My heart goes out to you. Screw the van--------group hug the family!!! Well maybe screw the DH too!!! Shame on me.....:smile2:

Hang in there-----------:biggrin:

Kat

Kat,

you have probably already left, but I wanted to say not to be scared of the oral surgeon. I had to have a root canal through a crown and it was the most fabulous thing. I was in PAIN PAIN PAIN for two weeks before I could get scheduled (we have no endodontists in our town). When I got there, he said "You know that pain you are feeling now? That's all gonna stop in about 5 minutes." He was RIGHT!!! I wanted to cry with happiness. I will never fear an oral surgeon again. He was a god send. I hope you had a good experience.

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