Hi everyone, it's me Meridian. My user name was "venomfleurs" or something like that but I could not remember my email or password. Anyway, I just wanted to give everyone a small update and ask a question.

Firstly, I've lost a total of 65 pounds so far and even though my doctor said that's not good for the first year, I think it's pretty darn awesome.

Second, I got all my medical issues figured out (ie the feeling weak when standing and feeling pressure in my head). I'm anemic and they have me on extra Iron.

Third, I got engaged! To a wonderful man and things have been amazing.

My question is this and it's a bit personal but sex after weight loss surgery: I notice after oral sex my stomach hurts a lot. Is it normal for my stomach to hurt after swallowing sperm? After I do (and place let's all be adults here since we already are) my stomach hurts and I have runny bowls. I don't do it often so does this happen to anyone else? Did sex improve for you after weight loss surgery?

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I haven't had surgery so I don't know but ejaculation is fast sometimes and can be more than we realize. When I used to do that on my now ex husband it would make me sick. From everything I've read on these forums you have sip slowly on things and chew slowly and thoroughly... So maybe it's just too much Fluid too fast....?

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I haven't had surgery so I don't know but ejaculation is fast sometimes and can be more than we realize. When I used to do that on my now ex husband it would make me sick. From everything I've read on these forums you have sip slowly on things and chew slowly and thoroughly... So maybe it's just too much Fluid too fast....?

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That makes sense, too much fluid too fast because I swallow it fast because I hate the taste. I think I'll talk to my fiancé and tell him that it makes me sick and see if we can try something else. Thank you.

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