Hi everyone

So I had surgery on Mon .

Generally my house is where the big BQ is with swimming , cold beer , music and fun but of course I am not quite ready for that.

Seeing that it is Labor Day Weekend my husband is making Ribs,black beans,salad and baked potatoes. I am on my 12th day of liquids and really want to kill him just about know:)

But I am being nice

Its tough, but you cant necessarily expect others (even those closest to you) to change their habits or rethink their way of doing things. Maybe its hard for him not to have the big bash this year and he's compensating by making the food anyway. Is he still planning on having everyone over? And in general, has been supportive and helped you out during the process?

We did not have anyone over and he is supportive:)I guess I am just struggling it's amazing how addicted to food I am.

Qs important as it is to have people in our lives who would do anything to make the journey easier, it's ultimately our journey to take. There's always going to be temptation; speaking only for myself, I'M the reason I got to be 354 lbs. so I'VE got to be the reason I get down to 200 lbs. Best of luck to you!!!