I thought we need a support group for all of us that ate single. We don't have partners, possibly lonely, etc. all is fair on this board. Lets have fun and be happy :-)

Gen :-) 12/15/12

Good for you!

Snap your fingers in the air and yell, "NEXT!"

So where are all you hotties meeting these gentlemen????? I've always been freaked by dating! Point me the ight direction!!!

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 204.2

So where are all you hotties meeting these gentlemen????? I've always been freaked by dating! Point me the ight direction!!!

HW 312' date=' pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 204.2[/quote']

Dating is the worst.

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Single here and checking in!! I can't wait to start to live again. I'm pre op and hopefully will have my surgery in the next few months. I was married in 2003 and divorced in 2005. Now I am single with an adopted baby girl. I'm not sure if I'm ready to date just yet I'm thinking in a year or so after my surgery. I'm ready to be loved again. good luck everyone with finding love!!

Dating is the worst.

I haven't been out on a date date in like 3 years. It really does suck. I'd rather just hang out with a guy I like. Nothing formal. No plan. I'm more comfortable that way.

I haven't been out on a date date in like 3 years. It really does suck. I'd rather just hang out with a guy I like. Nothing formal. No plan. I'm more comfortable that way.

I left my ex over a year ago and am much better off. I was really settling with him! I won't do that again. We were together 2.5 years so at this point I haven't gone on a first date in like 4 years! Yikes! I'm already nervous just thinking about it.

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So I guess just having that match membership but never actually responding to anyone won't cut it????

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 204.2

You guys will find someone. My advice is be open to someone who you might not consider your type, and don't settle just because you want a relationship you're worth more than just settling.

highest weight: 380<br />date of surgery weight: 376<br />current weight 349

I have something to share: After two – year hiatus in dating, I put my profile out on okcupid.com. I briefly dated two different men who turned out to be not right for me, but, as they say, the third time's the charm. For the past three weeks I've been dating this very nice young man. I say young because he is nine years younger than I am. I feel 10 years younger, so why shouldn't I date someone who is 10 years younger, almost?

I almost forgot to mention: in the past I always posted a full-length picture of myself sort of as a full disclosure on what I really look like and how big I was. I always thought if I lost weight I would put a full-length skinny picture of myself on there and get better guys. Interestingly, at 70 pounds thinner, I have no desire to attract men who would judge me on my size. Interesting,huh?

Hi my name is stacie single since April focusing on myself for now had surgery 11/19/13 doing goid no problems glad I get to start pureed foods Tuesday I'd like to find a good man I was married n divorce in 93 lol so I say single its been so long ago I love being a cougar lol I like them younger n skinny haha

I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months post-op. I am not sure if it had anything to do with my surgery. I think it had to do more with not wanting to settle. I am hoping to meet someone at a race, support group meeting, or at the gym.