After the surgery, have any of you ladies felt an increase in your libido? I'm thinking my husband wants to have his cake and eat it too.

Yep. And hubby's happy. I also find it just feels better these days.

I'm glad to hear that!!!!

All the meds I've been on (keep in mind I'm only 25 as of this coming sundday -- but i've been on and off a medley of prescriptions since i was 17 --) keep me from even thinking about getting close under the covers, yet alone actually wanting it.

Poor hubby deals, but i know he gets miserable at times. So one of my secret hopes of this surgery is that losing the weight will make me want it more (preferably a lot more!!). Which in turn will make hubby happier!:clap2:

For me, sometimes it wasn't about not wanting to have sex, it was about not wanting to be nekkid. HE never minded, but I just can't stand to think about what I must look like to him. Having lost just over half what I want to lose, it's alot different now. I still don't like things, but I do feel better about myself, so I am more interested, lol.