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Ugh so upset

I was at this doctors office and this man asked me if I was pregnant, and then he says are you having a boy or girl? I looked at him and said for the first time EVER (because in the past I've been embarrassed and will just say oh yeah or whatever) I am not pregnant, and I don't look pregnant either. He was all apologetic and I left out after my boyfriend and I were done. And cried :( my bf got mad and was like don't let someone upset u like that blah blah. Well u don't know how it feels. I used to get this all the time before my surgery. I know I'm only three months out but I have lost a TON of weight. It really discouraged me because no one has asked me that in probably over a year. I mean a total of like 4 people have asked me in the past. And it hurt then. But not like now. Sorry! Had to vent...

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  • Well, I adviseall not to ask about pregnancy unless you actually SEE the baby's crown... But that's ANOTHER story. I know this is upsetting, but you are on the right path and you know it. Try not

  • zenandnow
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    I saw your pics on your previous post; you look great! Don't let one fool get you down. You do NOT look pregnant, he was just an idiot! Be proud of how far you've come, not just physically, but mental

  • RJ'S/beginning
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    I have had it both ways since my surgery......People telling me that I was always huge and that I won't make it...To your not losing any more weight are you...You look pale.... I have decided not to

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I liked your other profile picture!!!! Bring back the man candy with the sexy abs!!! :)

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How you doin?

Jessica Diane- I get asked that a lot...never feels good!

Keep up the excellent work, you look great!

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Thanks everyone.

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