Well I got the final no from my external review. According to my insurance and employer I have not been fat enough for long enough. I can't understand how they deny just because I have had a small handful of successful short lived attempts at weight loss. Comorbidities, family history, and health issues don't mean squat. I asked for an exception from my employer and was told no exceptions of any kind are permitted at any time.

I am handling it a lot better then I thought. In December when the massive CF of confusion was happening, I decided I would pay myself if I was denied. Lots of emotions the past few months. But I have my goal. I am no longer fighting. I can finally focus with a clear mind at what is happening and how my new life may look.

Part rant part relief. All peace and joy.

That happened to me 2 years ago! If I could have afforded it I would have done the same thing! Good luck to you and now you have the control! Good for you!

Thank you. After all the stress and sadness, I can finally focus on the goal.

Good luck with your approval!!! Hope they play nice with you!!!