So, I was on a first date yesterday. It was a lot of fun, we met for coffee, talked for a couple of hours, and then parted ways. When the evening wound down, I walked her to her motorcycle which was parked out in front of a skeezy dog park in downtown Seattle. Lots of drunks and sketchy folks hanging out.

When we got to her bike, after a little more small talk, we had a nice good night kiss. A VERY nice good night kiss. In fact, it turned into a bit of a make out session in full public view (prompting, I **** you not, a round of applause from the bums drinking in the park!). As we were drawing apart, ready to go our separate ways, she had her hands on my waist, and she commented "wow, nice abs!"

I have never had ANYONE in my ENTIRE LIFE say "nice abs" to me before.

THANK YOU, SLEEVE!

(edit: realized I was being overly defensive about my life choices... without need. Changed the tone!)

Just wanted to say congrats on the awesome first date and great compliment! I bet it felt amazing to hear after all that hard work.

And I think it's interesting to hear about different values/walks of life, we don't all fit into the same little box. =)

I completely agree

As long as you're not doing goats or little kids, more power to you! Enjoy the NSV!!!

As long as you're not doing goats or little kids' date=' more power to you! Enjoy the NSV!!![/quote']

Lol, Washington is known for its bestiality.....

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Brothah...you gotta do what you gotta do. I'm not a fan of marriage as it pertains to today. People settle so often in life...I did and now I am happily divorced. But anyone's opinion of you, your choices or life...is none of your business. When you characterize them into that...what they say can't take up real estate in your mind. Tell them to piss off and enjoy your life. You have been hiding due to your weight long enough! Go and live!!

I live in ky pretty much anything goes here. I am originally from nyc so this read definately culture shock for me. When my husband and I got our marriage license they asked if we were related I looked at them like they were crazy after a certain age you can marry your first cousin here you just have to be old enough to not be able to have children I think with parental given you can be 14 the rules are different here

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Woot woot!! Nice!!

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