I posted not long ago that I am seeing 2 guys at the same time.

I thought by now I would be able to decide which one I like better. I like them both!

They are different as night and day, and there are things I like about both of them. I don't really care, as long as they don't find out.

It's so weird after being so heavy for so long, to have this happen now. good grief, I am 57 years old. I didn't date 2 guys at the same time even when I was a teenager.

It's a really small town, and it would be easy for one of them to see me out with the other one. I have to be really careful.The funny part is that they both love to cook. They are always inviting me over for dinner. Neither of them knows about my surgery. Believe me, this is not easy!

Oh well, I am going to have fun while it lasts. Who am I to argue when they invite me to a nice restaurant, right?:blushing:

Thanks Tiff! There are times when I do feel really guilty, and then there are other days when I don't hear from them that I don't feel like I am an important part of their life.

So, until one of them shows me or starts talking about his feelings for me, I remain confused. I am not going to sit home if I have an invitation to do something fun. I just don't feel the need to say " oh and by the way, last night I went out with somebody else because you didn't call."

Ah, as an old married woman, I'm jealous! I remember those days. Have fun, keep it casual, and when the right one comes along, you'll know!