is it a turn off fit a man to find out a girl has had wls?

No problems here. Lose the jerk if he can't deal!

OMG!!!! Nooooooo!

People can be vain and opinionated and just downright mean.

Lose the jerk you don't need the stress.

My husband actually inspired me to get it done. Being that he is a power lifter he is in shape but after the kid I went out of shape so when I brought it up he inspired me to go with it. Kept saying its that or diabetes stroke etc. any guy who is turned off by the wls is prob not "to death do us part" kinda a guy.

I don't regret any decision in my life because at the end I will make it work

Honestly, it probably would have bothered me before I decided to do it. I would have considered it weakness, laziness or just plain taking the easy way out.

Age has brought wisdom (I think). I've come to the conclusion it's not so much weakness as a final opportunity where previous honest attempts have proved useless.