It was kept as a secret to most of my famliy and friends, yet felt like more support is needed. Joined this site to meet new people, make new friends who can relate to ones life. Many positive and great appreciated advice was given, this was the place! After feeling a bit depressed over some pre-op pictures that were taken, coming here helped out a lot. Where the point to feeling uncomfortable came was that same day. Recieved private msgs in the chat, that were accepted (prv. msg are disabled) to some point. Felt very uncomfortable, discusted, disrespected and violated after it was realized where the conversation was going. Immediately exited out from chat and site. Was contemplating whether to return or not and soon after deleted many information that was added to profile. Understood that it is an open site for guests, but what made it worse was the disrespect that came from a member...

A place where one goes for support, intentions or not, it is wrong.

I wish you the best of luck. This is a very exciting time and these boards can be very informative and really give you a lot of support.

thank you Lisa