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I havnet been to visit in months and this is the first thing I come across and this is ME!! I feel as if the band has stopped working for me... I get stuck every single day... but yet can still eat WHATEVER I want how much I want when I want... very frustrating... I too feel like a failure...

try the 5 day pouch test... http://5daypouchtest.com/

I too have been stuck on the same weight for about 1 month now... I'm gonna start the 5 day pouch test and hopefully it will jump start my loss again.....

I gotta respond to this and say make sure you have a good doc you see and make sure that you are stable before getting your band because yes you will still have mood swings and the whole weight loss journey can make it good or bad. I have depression with manic episodes but am not officially bi polar and I noticed that the first 2 weeks after having surgery were bad so just make sure you are stable and have good meds that you can take .

back in Feb. I was suffering from being overfilled and was pb'ing every day getting stuck and vomiting.... so I went and got a very slight unfill and was happy ever since up until about 2 weeks ago I noticed that I can eat and eat and eat, I'm not losing weight and keep gaining and losing the same 2lbs.... I get super hungry after 1-2hours I mean tummy rumbling Water not helping hunger.... so I have decided that I will get a fill on sunday the 21st but am soooooo super scared that I will get over filled again since I go to Mexico for my fills and unfills it is mostly a gamble even though they do the fills under fluro. it's more of a pain to go back and forth even though I live 10 mins away from the boarder LOL I want to keep losing weight since I have lost 54lbs so far and have about 90 more to go to reach goal.. I'm just worried and scared

all i can say is WOW!!

So I noticed that last month I was losing pounds but this month I;m losing inches.... so annoying that it happens like that anyone else going thru this?

thanks for your comment.... HOWEVER you dont know my realationship with my husband thus can not assume to understand HOW his comment affected me... As far as making him sleep out of the bed room I AM THE ONE who left.....I AM THE ONE who chooses to sleep somewhere else.... And as far as support from him I NEVER GOT IT TO BEGIN WITH so I DONT expect it.....

Thanks everyone It feels so GREAT to have lost 50lbs cant wait for the next 50 to come off....

http://www.lapbandtalk.com/gallery/image/37768-zen1/ This is me last year around this time and this is me now...

Ha ha we have had seperate rooms since he made that comment!!!

He did ask if I was gaining weight again and said I need to exercise more.... He needs to get off his butt and lose 50lbs I'd like to see him try!!!

I really want to upload a pic of my before and now but dont know how... Does any one know how to do that and could you please help me Thanks!!!

As a matter a fact he is overweight I think he is just jealous.....He has been banned from my room and bed LOL

For those who have followed my posts you will know that I was banded in Aug '10 and have lost 50lbs to date!!! You would figure that is a wonderful thing, until your husband comments: "are your gaining weight again? you look flabby" WTH!!!! what a way to really hurt someones feelings! I just hate men sometimes