sgrmag31

Hi All, I have been on a bit of a roller coaster with my husband. When I first brought everthing up, he was very supportive. Then, he must have thought about things and started to question why I needed to get this done. He is worried because it is a surgery and there are risks involved. He told me that I didn't need to get it done because of him, he would love me no matter what. It was great to hear but he doesn't have to live in my body. I have tried to talk to him over the past few days about it, and he responds but isn't gung-ho. I know I will need his support because we eat together. He loves chocolate and likes to go out to eat as much as I do so we will need to find new things to do together. My mom and sister also struggle with their weight and I think they are waiting to see how I do with the band before they make any decisions. I know I have their support, but once again, we all eat together...we are all going to need to find a new hobby!!!

I have been researching different band topics on this website for about 2 months. I have finally made the decision to take steps toward the surgery and I am in the process of getting my initial surgical consultation. I have struggled with my weight for 20+ years and am tired of the struggle. I know the lapband isn't a magic pill, but I need this additional tool to get my weight off. I look forward to any advice you can give me. I'll keep you posted!!

Hello, I guess it is time to introduce myself. I have been doing a lot of research about the band on this website. I thank all of you for posting your heartfelt responses, concerns, and ups/downs. After a lot of research and basically being fed up with my weight, I have decided to get the lapband and am in the process of getting my initial consultation with my surgeon. Because of your posts, I think I have picked a great surgeon and I have already taken steps through my doctor to get this surgery approved by my insurance. I have spent my entire lifetime struggling with my weight and I want to get control of it before medical conditions start to occur. I already feel at home here on this site and look forward to some great discussions with you all.