Hi CoachCher
Thank you so much for your prompt response.
Your thread really made me think, and made me feel more positive.
Your reply to my message, makes good sense, and I'm sure understanding/ beleiving that should help, thank you.
It's bad choices that's got me here, I need to learn how to make good choices, Iam a very positive person, except I find it hard to substain positive attitude where food is concerned.
I delayed my op for a year, to be sure I was doing the right thing, Now I have undergone surgury, a massive step. WHY can't I commit to the change, I am desperate to, but it certainly feels like something in my head is blocking my actions. Thank you so much for your time. I wll definately be in touch again, if you don't mind. again, thank you.
Anna.