Hi Kathy,
I'm new here, just joined tonight. Like you, I think the Lap Band is much more safer, and lots of people do well with it. I'm just starting this process and don't know what to expect. I have BCBS of IL, and am hoping that they will cover the surgery. As for support, I can understand where you're coming from. My mom and husband were very upset when I first talked of having gastric bypass a few years ago. I know that they were just scared of me having serious complications or dying from the surgery. So since that time, we've had several talks, and they know how I feel, and that this is what I need and want to live a longer and healthier life. Now they are very supportive, still nervous, but more happy with me deciding on the Lap Band. Maybe your parents are really just scared and don't know how to express that. I'm glad that you do have a good support system with others. Everyone needs support to keep them going!
Lisa