SlimmingLanie

I completely understand. The many times I have brought it up to my mom over the years she tells me all the horrible things that will go wrong, just to diet and exercise, etc. I told my husband that we are NOT telling her before I have it. I just can't have that negativity. Not to mention, she has absolutely no room to talk, but I am not shaming her. Beyond the projecting, people just seem to be up in everyone's business these days. It would be nice not to care what others think, but it is easier said than done. I have to agree, Sunshine Princess, that WLS is definitely not the "easier way out", but for some of us see it as our last real option.

Thanks! My husband would be using Medicare and Tricare so this answered the very question he asked me regarding his own plan/path forward.

Thank you so much. I appreciate such a thorough response and was able to share it with my husband. Ultimately it is my choice, but I feel my husband needs to feel comfortable with it. I agree with the points you mention and appreciate the confirmation.

I have the cash for Mexico, but not that cash for US without feeling guilty taking from my family especially if I have insurance. I also didn't want to wait a year+. I appreciate the input!

That isn't bad at all. I appreciate your insight. I know everyone's experience is different, but would rather see from other patients than just the coordinators at the bariatric center.

Has anyone else compared VSG in the US with a long wait due to insurance (Tricare Prime) and Mexico? I am considering EOC (Elias Ortiz & Company) in Tijuana because you set the date, you go, and you simply work hard. I have watched all the videos from Sage Bariatric on YouTube (which is where I am attempting to go with insurance), but having military insurance with so many rules, I just don't know what is feasible. What have I not considered? My husband can accompany me to Tijuana so I won't be alone and he can provide support. The all around care they provide seems to be top notch. I have searched these forums and read, and read, and read some more. I thought I would seek other's advice. Thanks!