danny29

I hate I had the surgery rny I'm so depress and I just want to feel like myself I have not felt like me I'm sacred my tummy is ugly like I would have never had this surgery I feel like no one understands me I'm all alone and I can shake it [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24]
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A lot of what you are feeling right now is probably hormonal in nature--the RNY can wreak havoc on them. You didn't say in your post how long ago your surgery was, but I think many of us had "buyer's remorse" and wondered why we did this. But PLEASE hang in there, talk to your therapist, and remember we care and are rooting for you. The scars and the pain will fade, and remember your kids--this should give you a long healthy life with them!

The above line is all you need to realize, Your Kids need you and you are getting heathier so you can be there for them. The rest will be fixed over time - As for the Tummy get a little plastic work over and you will have a new small cute tummy. But atleast due to the surgery you will get the option.
Keep you head up you got this

I'm actually on the way to see the doctor now

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I'm actually on the way to see the doctor now

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I'm actually on the way to see the doctor now

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Possibly sciatica. Mine was bothering me after laying too much in the hospital the first day. Your best bet is to stretch it and walk walk walk! Good luck!

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Yes they do even give me painkillers what is it hurts so bad I really can walk

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Close the best decision okay roommate I'm just a little scared

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Close the best decision okay roommate I'm just a little scared

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I just had my sleeve operation on Tuesday, so I know exactly how you are feeling. I had not been so scared of doing something in my entire life, especially voluntarily. I cam home early Wednesday morning, and while I am still sore and everything makes me nauseous, I still know deep down it was the right decision for me, and I bet deep down you know for yourself too!
You got this, you are NOT alone!

Hey Danny, I was assured in the support group I attended last night that what you are experiencing is absolutely normal. Let's talk about it if you want to, what's going on? I'm awake for another hour give or take.
What does your support system look like? Have you had surgery before? Are you afraid of anything in particular?

Tomorrow is my big day and I'm very scared and nervous in my anxiety is through the roof words of encouragement would be helpful[emoji17] [emoji17] [emoji17] [emoji17]
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Tomorrow is my big day and I'm very scared and nervous in my anxiety is through the roof words of encouragement would be helpful[emoji17] [emoji17] [emoji17] [emoji17]
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Thank you so much

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Do y forget to post afterwards and let us k ow that it all went well when you are able.

I think that everyone or at least most have the same anxiety before surgery. Try your best to relax. Have faith in your surgeon and know that a brand new life is getting ready to open up for you.
if you are still anxious when you get to the hospital let your dr know. They will give you something to help you relax.
This part will be behind you soon.

Check out Amazon or Bariatric Pal.com for vitamins, shakes, protein powders etc. I am 1 wk out from my sleeve surgery and my program said I needed the following. In either the Bariatric advantage or Celebrate brand.

I found bariatric pal.com to be cheaper due to promo codes or reoccurring ordering discounts. I also take D3 2000iu, 2xday, B12 vit orally and Biotin daily.
Good luck

I was told to get Flintstones children’s chewable ( not the gummy ones) to start. About 2.5 months after my surgery I was able to switch to regular adult multi vitamins. I did have to cut them in half though.

I will be having my gastro bypass surgery and I'm excited and nervous at the same time I'm looking for support from people who have had it and to learn new meals when I'm able to eat them my name is Danny
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