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It's good that you bring this up. It is definitely a more widespread issue in the WLS community considering our obese beginnings. I have definitely experienced the 'consequential' chain of events where one thing means this thing is justified and so on. I've struggled with BD throughout my teenage years. Ironically I overcame BD when I was at my highest weight. Seems like something 'clicked,' and I realized that the weight does not and should not define who I am. I think the important take-away is that you realize you've taken the necessary steps to better yourself. You were patient enough to wait for surgery, get the surgery, and now maintain a healthy weight. You know you've done well, therefore you must give yourself credit for your achievements. As for plastics, I think that is a personal decision and should not be impulsive. After all, hard work does pay off internally and aesthetically; plastics only gets you there a bit quicker ?.

I had RNY done on 8/19 as well! it's so cool to see there are others out there with the same date! Hello ?

@Rays of Sunshine, it makes me happy that your sister called to clarify. Support from family is so so important for us, more so during our recovery. It's important to have someone supportive by our side! Good luck on your pre-op diet as well. It may seem hard to get through, but you will look back at the struggle and realize how resilient you were.

I'm so excited to hear the good news. Keep up the good work, you'll be at your goal in no time! ?