Hello I am a single parent to a 6yo, 4yo and 2yo. As a parent this is not selfish. It is for their benefit as well as yours. It means more time with your angels, more quality time as you get healthier and this is your chance to be the best version of you for you to teach them they can do anything they want. Best of luck being the best you can be and showing your children how to reach for anything you want. Wishing you love and light in your journey.